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im such a b***h (maybe tmi) Sierra&Aria[09.14.12] 1 child; Illinois 366 posts
16th Dec '12

I can't remember the last time me and SO had sex. (I think its only been a month but I can't be sure) and he says it's because he works 12 hour days but he only works 3-4 days a week. I would think if we had 3-4 days when he doesn't work it would happen. But it doesn't no mater how often/hard I try and I'm getting really frustrated. And I completely just took it out on SO. We were laying in bed and he asked me to cuddle and I guess I like sighed before I rolled over ans he's like "you don't have to" and I said "it's not like I get anything else." God I'm a b***h, and I'm too damn stubborn to just apologize.

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19105 posts
status 16th Dec '12

I can't blame you, I wouldn't wanna go a month without sex either. I need that shit like every other day...

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44067 posts
status 16th Dec '12

At least he's showing some intimacy by wanting to cuddle. Maybe he's depressed or his testosterone levels are off. Maybe try planning a nice day wth just the two of you. Go on a date. Flirt. Etc. sometimes for us to get in te mood it's literally an all day process from the one we wake up to the time we get between the sheets at night :wink: some people take a lot more working up than others especially when they're overtired or depressed.

Sierra&Aria[09.14.12] 1 child; Illinois 366 posts
16th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ღ a&m:</b>" I can't blame you, I wouldn't wanna go a month without sex either. I need that shit like every other day..."</blockquote>




Yeah, but I totally went around it the wrong way.

Natalie Cooper 85 Spain 45 posts
16th Dec '12
yes me too i could not go that long


get some sexy undies out women and make things spice your and his sex drive up !! good luckQuoting ღ a&m:" I can't blame you, I wouldn't wanna go a month without sex either. I need that shit like every other day..."
KyliesMommy2012 Tokyo, Japan 1159 posts
16th Dec '12

I don't think it was bitchy... You were blunt.




Most guys need to be told straight up to get it. Now he knows that it's bothering you. Girls like and need sex too. It's not just when they want it. I'm in the same boat.. Frustrating. :?

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
16th Dec '12

you werent a b***h at all.



why couldnt you just start kissing him and doing whatever? im sure you easily could have turned snuggling into hot sex pretty easily

Sierra&Aria[09.14.12] 1 child; Illinois 366 posts
16th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" you werent a b***h at all. why couldnt you just start kissing him and doing whatever? im sure you easily could have turned snuggling into hot sex pretty easily "</blockquote>




I had already tried that. I kissed all over him and tried everything. But he didn't want anything to do with it. Hence my comment when again all he wanted to do was cuddle.

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting Sierra&Aria[09.14.12]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" you werent a b***h at all. why couldnt ... [snip!] ... and tried everything. But he didn't want anything to do with it. Hence my comment when again all he wanted to do was cuddle."


go down and start sucking his dick. he really cant say no to that.

Sierra&Aria[09.14.12] 1 child; Illinois 366 posts
16th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" go down and start sucking his dick. he really cant say no to that. "</blockquote>




Now that my daughter woke up. And I honestly don't want to. Haha. I don't want to be that nice to him.

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting Sierra&Aria[09.14.12]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" go down and start sucking his dick. ... [snip!] ... "</blockquote> Now that my daughter woke up. And I honestly don't want to. Haha. I don't want to be that nice to him."


well thats kinda mean. you're the one who wants sex so bad. just suck it up and do it (hahaha great pun). just do it long enough that he's hard say 'fuuuuck me" and i garuntee he will.

Sierra&Aria[09.14.12] 1 child; Illinois 366 posts
17th Dec '12

In case any one was curious I got home from work showered the grease off (I work fast food) changed into his favorite lingerie, added his favorite perfume and jumped his goddamn bones. Lmao. I feel so much better.

carrie113 1 child; SAGINAW, MI, United States 292 posts
17th Dec '12

Good girl!!