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Mother of Broccoli. 1 child; California 12595 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" The new guy I am seeing has met my DD, not purposely though lol. I tried having him over after she went ... [snip!] ... shit to himself & so do I but that is just how him & I are. I guess it depends on how you go about things with your BD."


Lol I feel like the same thing would happen to me. B is only 16 months and she pretty much gets along with everyone she's met.

What if... 2 kids; Ontario 4587 posts
16th Dec '12

to me it depends on the person.
After I left my daughters father I ended up dating someone almost a year later, we dated for 6 months and I kept him completely separate from my daughter.
because of that though he got used to childless me. as soon as we started talking more seriously he couldnt handle the idea of being in a relationship with a child involved. waste. of. tiime.
with my now SO they met after a few weeks and I have no regrets.



and my BD wasnt involved when I started dating so no I didnt tell him.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30740 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting Mother of Broccoli.:" Lol I feel like the same thing would happen to me. B is only 16 months and she pretty much gets along with everyone she's met."


Aww yea :) He is really good with DD & she likes him too. He has a younger brother who is 5 & he is really good with him too.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
16th Dec '12

I actually have a date soon.
The guy briefly met Kenzie last Thursday, he gave me a ride home because my friend was supposed to but had a couple drinks so he offered.
Then my friend wanted to come in and say hi to my mom and Kenz was still awake, so oops. :oops:



Also, Idk if I'm going to tell BD right away. Knowing him, he'll do everything in his power to make this guy hate me and he will try to make my life a living hell.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36553 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting Amarra's Mommy.:" My BD is like that when we broke up when I was pregnant with my daughter. I completely understand. I hate that."


My ex is MARRIED... and is still like that. OMG... It drives me up a wall. Then he talks about shit if things didnt happen we would lbe together and be married. and omg.

Mother of Broccoli. 1 child; California 12595 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" I actually have a date soon. The guy briefly met Kenzie last Thursday, he gave me a ride home because ... [snip!] ... away. Knowing him, he'll do everything in his power to make this guy hate me and he will try to make my life a living hell."


I feel the same :? I feel like Scott is going to do something stupid. He still won't talk to me, so it's not like I can really tell him what's up.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 30740 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting Mother of Broccoli.:" I feel the same :? I feel like Scott is going to do something stupid. He still won't talk to me, so it's not like I can really tell him what's up."


Meh, you don't need to tell him shit. Guys are always overly dramatic about shit too lol. I told my bd I was talking to a dude and he got all butt hurt trying to act like I was "replacing" him as a father to Lily. Like uhh no, you aren't even a father to begin with lol.

Mother of Broccoli. 1 child; California 12595 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" Meh, you don't need to tell him shit. Guys are always overly dramatic about shit too lol. I told ... [snip!] ... hurt trying to act like I was "replacing" him as a father to Lily. Like uhh no, you aren't even a father to begin with lol."


Ugh right!? Lol. He emotionally cheated on me for over a year and when I found out we broke up. I've been single for months and just started talking to someone else and he flipped out. :roll:

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting Mother of Broccoli.:" I feel the same :? I feel like Scott is going to do something stupid. He still won't talk to me, so it's not like I can really tell him what's up."


Mack is :( I wish he wouldn't..... lol.
He's begging for me back, and I just don't want to again. He's had too many chances, but he makes me feel so guilty.
Fml.

Mother of Broccoli. 1 child; California 12595 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Mack is :( I wish he wouldn't..... lol. He's begging for me back, and I just don't want to again. He's had too many chances, but he makes me feel so guilty. Fml."


I tried to reply to your announcement but I couldn't. DO NOT GET BACK WITH HIM. He is trying to manipulate you. Scott does the same thing because he wants to have control over everything I do. What I tell Scott when he makes me feel guilty, is that maybe in a few months/years/whatever we can try again. Because I (and you might be too) might be ready to try again then once you have some space.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting Mother of Broccoli.:" I tried to reply to your announcement but I couldn't. DO NOT GET BACK WITH HIM. He is trying to manipulate ... [snip!] ... we can try again. Because I (and you might be too) might be ready to try again then once you have some space."


Maybe.
I don't plan on getting back together. I just feel so shitty for being so firm and cold about it right before his birthday :?

Mother of Broccoli. 1 child; California 12595 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Maybe. I don't plan on getting back together. I just feel so shitty for being so firm and cold about it right before his birthday :?"


I bet you he'll try and use that to make you feel guilty :( Boys suck.

buggials 1 child; Valrico, Florida 646 posts
17th Dec '12

My ex was trying to get back with me and has had a gf since before my lo was born. yes MY lo...he recently said he wants nothing to do with her so if/when I start dating again I'm not telling him because last time I mentioned that I was "thinking" of dating he tried that whole well I was thinking about getting back together thing...yeah screw that.
I was just thinking about the whole when to introduce guys problem been single over a year now eventually I need to get back out there don't want to be single forever.