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please give me advice Jay,Joey&Jordyn'sMommy 3 kids; Baltimore, Maryland 1144 posts
16th Dec '12

I'm at work in tears right now, i need some advice.



My husband left our kids at home in bed this morning after i left for work and ran to the store around the corner. I am BEYOND pissed, seriously considering leaving over this. How the hell can he leave my babies at home by themselves?!??!

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
16th Dec '12

Uh wtf. That's terrible!!!!! What the hell did he think he needed so bad to leave his kids alone? Ya I would not trust him.

Jay,Joey&Jordyn'sMommy 3 kids; Baltimore, Maryland 1144 posts
16th Dec '12

he said he needed milk and stuff, i am so pissed off..



and he doesn't see a problem with it



THEY ARE 3 AND 22 MONTHS what the hell is wrong with him

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
16th Dec '12

I would leave work. I would not trust DH with DD a second later if he pulled some shit like that.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
16th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" he said he needed milk and stuff, i am so pissed off.. and he doesn't see a problem with it THEY ARE 3 AND 22 MONTHS what the hell is wrong with him"</blockquote>



Honestly, I'd call the police so he could be lectured on the seriousness of his actions.

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
16th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" he said he needed milk and stuff, ... [snip!] ... is wrong with him"</blockquote> Honestly, I'd call the police so he could be lectured on the seriousness of his actions."</blockquote>




I agree. I would never be able to trust him againZ

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
16th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" I would leave work. I would not trust DH with DD a second later if he pulled some shit like that."</blockquote>




!

Jay,Joey&Jordyn'sMommy 3 kids; Baltimore, Maryland 1144 posts
16th Dec '12

He's yelling at me now because I got mad. He's saying that I'm lazy and a slob and he needed things from the store so he had to leave cause I didn't leave the car seats. I work litterally 2 minutes down the road



i just wanna leave i keep crying

Legendary Yo Mama Due January 31; 12 kids; 724 posts
16th Dec '12

How long was he gone?

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
16th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" He's yelling at me now because I got mad. He's saying that I'm lazy and a slob and he needed things from ... [snip!] ... he had to leave cause I didn't leave the car seats. I work litterally 2 minutes down the road i just wanna leave i keep crying"</blockquote>




What an ass. I would leave work.

Trace1886 66 kids; Dayton, Ohio 552 posts
16th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Stl mama:</b>" How long was he gone?"</blockquote>




You are kidding right?

Jay,Joey&Jordyn'sMommy 3 kids; Baltimore, Maryland 1144 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting Stl mama:" How long was he gone?"



he says 5 minutes but i know thats not possible. I dont even leave my kids in the car while i pay for gas, i bring them in with me.



He doesn't understand how wrong this is

Jay,Joey&Jordyn'sMommy 3 kids; Baltimore, Maryland 1144 posts
16th Dec '12
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" He's yelling at me now because I ... [snip!] ... litterally 2 minutes down the road i just wanna leave i keep crying"</blockquote> What an ass. I would leave work."


I want to leave so bad cause i work at a front desk and i just keep crying cause i am so hurt that he would just leave them there.... If i leave i would get fired im sure

Legendary Yo Mama Due January 31; 12 kids; 724 posts
16th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" He's yelling at me now because I got mad. He's saying that I'm lazy and a slob and he needed things from ... [snip!] ... he had to leave cause I didn't leave the car seats. I work litterally 2 minutes down the road i just wanna leave i keep crying"</blockquote>



I've actually had this discussion with other moms. One mom used to leave kids in bed to run the other kids to school. I think people do it, they just don't admit it.
I don't think it's necessarily the smartest thing to do, but I could think of a ton of things that are way worse.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
16th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jayden&Joey'sMommy+1:</b>" He's yelling at me now because I got mad. He's saying that I'm lazy and a slob and he needed things from ... [snip!] ... he had to leave cause I didn't leave the car seats. I work litterally 2 minutes down the road i just wanna leave i keep crying"</blockquote>



Oh f**k that. It's not your fault. It's his responsibility to take them with him where ever he goes. Although if you were out of milk and knew it I could see why he would be pissed. It is rude to take the car seats and not have supplies on hand for the kids. Regardless though, he made the decision to handle things the way he did.



He needs to accept responsibility for his actions and choices he made.