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Feeling like a failure Amiyah Destiny's Mommy 17 kids; Raleigh, North Carolina 2106 posts
17th Dec '12

So I miscarried this morning and I feel like a complete failure. I feel bad things always seem to happen to me! What did I do to deserve this especially at 12 weeks . All i can do is lay on the couch and cry. I'm hurt .

lamr - 02-08-13-21 2 kids; Crazytown, ON, Canada 5989 posts
17th Dec '12

I'm so sorry :(

LIVE.OUT.LOUD Due July 11 (boy); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lawrenceville, Georgia 1624 posts
17th Dec '12

I'm SOOO sorry :(

wombie 4 kids; Zimbabwe 73281 posts
17th Dec '12

I'm so sorry sweetie. This is no fault of your own and you did nothing to deserve it :cry:

S♡J=Malachi 1 child; 3 angel babies; Florida 3278 posts
17th Dec '12

Honey no you aren't a failure!!!!

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
17th Dec '12

I lost a baby at 13 weeks.
Don't feel like a failure, I know it's so hard when you were so far along. Just let out all your tears, you are completely fine in feeling down.
Just try and do things to take your mind off of it after you cry it all out. It took me a few months to get back to normal, I'm not going to lie.
You're not alone *hugs*

Amiyah Destiny's Mommy 17 kids; Raleigh, North Carolina 2106 posts
17th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting InkDMomma:</b>" I lost a baby at 13 weeks. Don't feel like a failure, I know it's so hard when you were so far along. ... [snip!] ... of it after you cry it all out. It took me a few months to get back to normal, I'm not going to lie. You're not alone *hugs*"</blockquote>




Thanks honey! Every move I make I've just been sobbing I feel bad because my daughter has to look at me like this and I'm trying to be strong for her. It's just hurting me to know I heard the baby heartbeat the night before and now this happened. I think that's what's hurting me more.

Amiyah Destiny's Mommy 17 kids; Raleigh, North Carolina 2106 posts
17th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting wombie:</b>" I'm so sorry sweetie. This is no fault of your own and you did nothing to deserve it :cry:"</blockquote>




Thanks for the encouraging words . I don't know when I'll stop beating myself about this!!

Amiyah Destiny's Mommy 17 kids; Raleigh, North Carolina 2106 posts
17th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting True Diva:</b>" Honey no you aren't a failure!!!!"</blockquote>



:-( I feel like it.

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
17th Dec '12
Quoting Amiyah Destiny's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting InkDMomma:</b>" I lost a baby at 13 weeks. Don't feel like a ... [snip!] ... hurting me to know I heard the baby heartbeat the night before and now this happened. I think that's what's hurting me more."


Exactly how mine happened. My kids had to see me a hot mess like that as well. The heart beat sounded beautiful earlier in the day and then that night I lost the baby.
I am so sorry for your loss.

Amiyah Destiny's Mommy 17 kids; Raleigh, North Carolina 2106 posts
17th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting InkDMomma:</b>" Exactly how mine happened. My kids had to see me a hot mess like that as well. The heart beat sounded beautiful earlier in the day and then that night I lost the baby. I am so sorry for your loss."</blockquote>



Aww did you ever find out the cause of it? I just want to know what happened to cause this so my mind can be put at ease. Did the placenta detach... Did it fail? Was the baby sick ? Was it my body that wasn't able to support the pregnancy ? . I'm just going to finish school , get my degree then try again. Thanks hon! Congrats on your pregnancy!! Good luck with everything .

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
17th Dec '12
Quoting Amiyah Destiny's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting InkDMomma:</b>" Exactly how mine happened. My kids had to see ... [snip!] ... going to finish school , get my degree then try again. Thanks hon! Congrats on your pregnancy!! Good luck with everything ."


I have a genetic disorder called MTHFR and a progesterone deficiency.
MTHFR causes blood clots in the umbilical cord and placenta so that is why I lost my angel.