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Discussing Sandy Hook with my kids Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
17th Dec '12

Today I spoke with my fifth graders about what happened on Friday. I figured we would take no more than fifteen minutes discussing it, but we talked for nearly an hour.



I think we sometimes get caught up in shielding our children, that we forget that they are more than capable of fully understanding what is going on, and that they are just as concerned, afraid, worried, and angry as we adults are. They needed to discuss this. They needed to be open about it. For the most part, they were not afraid, but more baffled that anyone would be capable of killing children. They were also very determined to find ways to prevent anything like this from happening to them.



We practiced our school lockdown drill, but my kids said that simply hiding is not going to be enough if a shooter entered the building. "The shooter would just shoot into our crowd of people and then more people would die." They wanted to discuss ways to protect our class. One of my students suggested we move the heavy cabinet nearer to the door, so that if an assailant entered the building, we could all push it against the door. I thought it was a fantastic idea, so we moved it. They also wanted to practice all fitting inside of the coat closet. You'd think that this would be a mess with twenty two 10 year olds, but you know, they took it so seriously and in the end we got them all to fit! Another student suggested that I keep a copy of the classroom keys hanging on the cabinet, so that I could quickly lock the door if anything were to happen. Again, great idea, and I plan to make that happen as well.



This morning, I dreaded talking to them about this. I thought they would look to me to tell them this would never happen again- and how could I say that? But they didn't. They were incredibly serious, mature, and thoughtful. They wanted to find ways to protect their classmates. They also wanted to take time to make sympathy cards to send to the students at Sandy Hook. "I don't know how I would feel if someone killed kids here, so I'm sure they are really sad, and we should make them feel better by drawing them happy pictures."



I am just amazed by their wisdom, heart, and determination. I am so proud to be their teacher.



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S♡J=Malachi 1 child; 3 angel babies; Florida 3278 posts
17th Dec '12

Wow you got some smart students.

SpaceCowgirl Due December 21; 3 kids; Oregon 20240 posts
17th Dec '12

Very sweet. Glad it went well.

Ashley Gosling 19 kids; Fort Myers, Florida 117 posts
17th Dec '12

Thats awsome that they were soo understanding and grown up about this. And soo sweet that they wanted to make the cards! Good job as a teacher to you!

Her mama his wife TTC since Nov 2010; 1 child; Puerto Rico 6237 posts
17th Dec '12

That is amazing. I got teary eyed reading it. I def think we should discuss it with our children so they know the importance of listening especially in times like that and that its important to stay calm. You are awesome!!

Hailee's Mama + 1 1 child; 1 angel baby; Georgia 13140 posts
17th Dec '12

I think you took a great approach to it! I'm site it made them feel better knowing that you had back up plans.

Mann Makin' Mama[BBM] 18 kids; Dalton, Georgia 11563 posts
17th Dec '12

Your students are so wonderful and mature! Great job teach!

Commander Shepard 18 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 6447 posts
17th Dec '12

That is so wonderful to hear. You are doing a great job in shaping and teaching our future!

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
17th Dec '12
Quoting Commander Shepard:" That is so wonderful to hear. You are doing a great job in shaping and teaching our future!"


Oh wow, thank you so much.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
18th Dec '12

It sounds like you and your class did an excellent job addressing what happened maturely and seriously. I hope that when my daughter starts going to school she has teachers like you.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting Thisperyears:" It sounds like you and your class did an excellent job addressing what happened maturely and seriously. I hope that when my daughter starts going to school she has teachers like you."


That's a wonderful compliment, thank you.

Destinite 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 31330 posts
18th Dec '12

I think you took a wondeful approach! You should be proud of yourself and your students.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting Destinite:" I think you took a wondeful approach! You should be proud of yourself and your students."


I appreciate it. I am very proud of them. They are fantastic.