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BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 69996 posts
17th Dec '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" What if she.didn't plan to keep it?"</blockquote> I can't answer that because it would depend on the circumstances."


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FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27581 posts
17th Dec '12
Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" got a girl pregnant and her parents kicked her out, would you let her stay with.you?"


Of course. Id help them all I could, no matter what decision she was making.

FeliciaAnn Due June 1; 3 kids; Washington 1333 posts
17th Dec '12

didn't plan to keep it like an abortion? or adoption? I would offer to adopt the baby and hope she'd still want to be involved. However I bet that would be a lot of heartbreak for everyone over time.

user banned California 36390 posts
17th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" What if she.didn't plan to keep it?"</blockquote> I can't answer that because it would depend on the circumstances."</blockquote>




What kind of circumstances?

user banned California 36390 posts
17th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting FeliciaAnn:</b>" didn't plan to keep it like an abortion? or adoption? I would offer to adopt the baby and hope she'd still want to be involved. However I bet that would be a lot of heartbreak for everyone over time. "</blockquote>




Adoption

B( o )( o )BS! 3 kids; Oregon 25900 posts
17th Dec '12
Quoting Just Emily :):" I mean why did her parents kick her out? Is she a selfish brat who wants to party and mooch while I watch ... [snip!] ... of the baby and be polite and respectful then sure. Eta: in the first situation I'd still take care of the baby if need be."


I'd do it especially in that case.

S♡J=Malachi 1 child; 3 angel babies; Florida 3278 posts
17th Dec '12

I would but my son would have to work & if I had younger children my soon wouldn't be sleePing in the same room with her.

FeliciaAnn Due June 1; 3 kids; Washington 1333 posts
17th Dec '12
Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting FeliciaAnn:</b>" didn't plan to keep it like an abortion? or ... [snip!] ... want to be involved. However I bet that would be a lot of heartbreak for everyone over time. "</blockquote> Adoption"


Well I'd offer to adopt the baby and hope that she would get on her feet and still want to be involved (like spending weekends with her) as the child grew up. It would be such a hard decision to make though.

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
17th Dec '12

Absolutely. But she will pull her own weight around the house and my son will get some kind of job to support themselves.
I know exactly how it feels to be kicked out just because you're pregnant.

EnnaBennaBanana Due February 2; 2 kids; Maryland 6195 posts
17th Dec '12
Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" got a girl pregnant and her parents kicked her out, would you let her stay with.you?"


Yes.
Although my son and her would not be sharing a room.

Lois. 1 child; Pennsylvania 2653 posts
17th Dec '12
Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting FeliciaAnn:</b>" didn't plan to keep it like an abortion? or ... [snip!] ... want to be involved. However I bet that would be a lot of heartbreak for everyone over time. "</blockquote> Adoption"


I'd let her stay until a few months after she had the baby.
Just because it could turn into such an awkward situation for my family and my son. Chances are they won't stay together forever and I'd want him to have a shot at being a teenager and not have to worry about his ex girlfriend living with him.

JΔ$ Georgia 76650 posts
17th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the ... [snip!] ... I can't answer that because it would depend on the circumstances."</blockquote> What kind of circumstances?"</blockquote>




If she had no other family, was going to be on birth control, still wanted support, etc. Essentially, I'd be helping taking care of someone else's kid here...

Daniee Due December 25 (girl); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Lynnwood, Washington 3460 posts
17th Dec '12

Yes I would, if she was giving it up. I'd ask if I could adopt the baby. And speak to my son and be sure that's what he wanted as far as adoption because both parents have to agree.



Also I'd let her stay until she could support herself, I'd make her get a job! I'd give her a time frame from after the baby was born.

JΔ$ Georgia 76650 posts
17th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting FeliciaAnn:</b>" didn't plan to keep it like an abortion? or ... [snip!] ... want to be involved. However I bet that would be a lot of heartbreak for everyone over time. "</blockquote> Adoption"</blockquote>



In that case, M and I would try our damnest to adopt the baby.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
17th Dec '12

Yes, I would let her stay. Unless she was some kind of crack head thief or something.



I'd continue to let her stay when the baby was born, too. I'd be treating her like a renter, basically. If her and my son were having a baby, they would need to act like adults and I would be treating them like adults.



If she wasn't keeping the baby, I would still let her stay.