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making sexual plans with a girl. Heidi. 15 kids; Rough and Ready, California 289 posts
18th Dec '12

If you have ever done anything sexual with a girl, not drunk, was it awkward the first time?



how did you get over the awkwardness?




thanks. :)

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
18th Dec '12

Well I haven't, but I would assume it wouldn't be awkward if you both like girls. Not like "testing the waters," but actually know you like women. Same as if you were straight and had sex with a man. It only gets awkward if you were like really good friends, co workers, etc... and have like a one night stand.




ETA: that's just my opinion!

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
18th Dec '12

Why would it be awkward??

Heidi. 15 kids; Rough and Ready, California 289 posts
18th Dec '12

it would be awkward because it would be my first time ever with a girl, besides drunk making out.

Janel_xo.♥ 1 child; California 1271 posts
18th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heidi.:</b>" If you have ever done anything sexual with a girl, not drunk, was it awkward the first time? how did you get over the awkwardness? thanks. :)"</blockquote>



It wasn't awkward for me. Also because I'm bisexual.

UhmAmber 1 child; Texas 2415 posts
18th Dec '12

It can be nerve racking bc you think you won't know what to do, but trust me, you do. :wink:

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting Heidi.:" it would be awkward because it would be my first time ever with a girl, besides drunk making out."


you and the other girl have control over whether it's not awkward. If you're willing to be okay with it after everything is said and done, it shouldn't get awkward.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
18th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heidi.:</b>" it would be awkward because it would be my first time ever with a girl, besides drunk making out."</blockquote>




If ur actually attracted to her, everything will come naturally, and vice versa...

BigMamaKate 1 child; Jonesboro, Arkansas 2960 posts
18th Dec '12

Same here. We both knew we were into girls, and we both liked each other, so everything just seemed to come naturally. It's completely up to the two of you to decide the atmosphere. :wink:

can111 1 child; Michigan 1005 posts
18th Dec '12

It shouldn't be awkward.
Is this a girlfriend or just a friend? Like, is this a romantic type of thing or you just wanna have sex?
Before getting back with my ex I had a girlfriend and she was my first but it was so passionate and romantic I couldn't even think of anything being awkward, it just came naturally.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5352 posts
18th Dec '12

I've had 2 relationships with girls that were sexual in my teens before I met DH and I wouldn't say either were awkward..... I don't know awkwardness is the least thing you feel lol

KyliesMommy2012 Tokyo, Japan 1159 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting BigMamaKate:" Same here. We both knew we were into girls, and we both liked each other, so everything just seemed to come naturally. It's completely up to the two of you to decide the atmosphere. :wink:"

So f**king random but everytime I see your avi I can't stop staring at her boobies.



I want some like that. :(

D♥'sK 17 kids; Keokuk, Iowa 329 posts
18th Dec '12

Never been weird for me ;) go with the flow.

BigMamaKate 1 child; Jonesboro, Arkansas 2960 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting KyliesMommy2012:" So f**king random but everytime I see your avi I can't stop staring at her boobies. I want some like that. :("


I know right? It's mesmerizing, they're amazing!!! :wink:

KyliesMommy2012 Tokyo, Japan 1159 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting BigMamaKate:" I know right? It's mesmerizing, they're amazing!!! :wink:"

Dude it totally is! I'm like freaking sitting there with my mouth open. Bahahaha.