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Mama*Kayla* Due January 16; 2 kids; Ontario 368 posts
Dec 18th '12

if me and my ex were on good terms and they have been together for a while, like at least a year, then yes

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting Blythe.:" If your kids are around her anyway then yea"


This is how I look at it, TBH. I bought something for my ex husbands new gf for Christmas. Kind of just like an Olive Branch. ( Nothing big, a $10 gift card to Dunkin Donuts lol).

3rdxsacharm Due April 29 (girl); 2 kids; Burdett, New York 159 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" I don't have to deal with this yet, because the kids are going with their dad Christmas eve (a few hours), and a couple hours on Christmas Day. "

That's what I would do too... My oldest DD has always gone to her fathers a different time and I have always had her Christmas morning.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, CA, United States 8830 posts
Dec 18th '12

Id like to say yes, but she did a lot during our custody battle that I just won't let go, i have to have a relationship with my ex and that's all I have to do,



Buuut, my husband and ex are really cool now, I'm glad they are able to have a good relationship...

MamaCass{+JOE} Due April 13; TTC since May 2015; 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Pennsylvania 42363 posts
Dec 18th '12

Um....definitely not, lol.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting Supafly★:" If she was nice and planned on being a part of the kids' lives I would. But I can't imagine any woman my DH picking after me would be that nice lol. "


:lol:

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting Supafly★:" I just picture an overweight Polish girl from the hills with a potty mouth and a bad dye job.....kind of like his last 2 exes lol. "



Well I mean, that's what we call an INFORMED decision. :wink:. We need to talk on the phone.. SOON! I miss your voice.

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 603 posts
Dec 18th '12

i would invite her over it wouldnt matter if we just got devoriced or its been years...it shows the kids you still respect your ex their dad and to me christmas is about being together not holding on to grudges

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting Alicia Holz:" i would invite her over it wouldnt matter if we just got devoriced or its been years...it shows the kids ... [snip!] ... shows the kids you still respect your ex their dad and to me christmas is about being together not holding on to grudges"



I truly agree with this.



My kids will be around this girl, whether I like her or not, it'll be easier on ALL of us, if we all try to at least get along. Once again, obviously, this isn't my problem this year, but it may in the future.

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 603 posts
Dec 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:</b>" I agree with this, though I wouldn't invite them over if they just got together... Mostly confusion ... [snip!] ... for the kids, no grudges or anything. I also wouldn't have my kids meet my boyfriend until we've been together at least a year."</blockquote>




this i agree with

The Doctor 2 kids; Boulder, CO, United States 60753 posts
Dec 18th '12

No, especially because BD can't even be civil enough to come over to my house. So obviously, his girlfriend wouldn't come, either.



However, in the event that BD could be civil, wanted to come over, and had been with his girlfriend for long enough to be considered serious, yes.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting The Doctor:" No, especially because BD can't even be civil enough to come over to my house. So obviously, his girlfriend ... [snip!] ... that BD could be civil, wanted to come over, and had been with his girlfriend for long enough to be considered serious, yes."


You know my story, well what I've put on here. And I wouldn't considered them SERIOUS, but he hasn't told the kids that it's his girlfriend or fiancee or whatever the f**k they are. When she's met the kids, she was strictly just " Daddy's friend." Nothing more. He doesn't plan to transition to "girlfriend" till they've been together for a while.

The Doctor 2 kids; Boulder, CO, United States 60753 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" You know my story, well what I've put on here. And I wouldn't considered them SERIOUS, but he hasn't ... [snip!] ... just " Daddy's friend." Nothing more. He doesn't plan to transition to "girlfriend" till they've been together for a while. "


Yeah, in that case, definitely no on the Christmas morning (IMO).

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting The Doctor:" Yeah, in that case, definitely no on the Christmas morning (IMO)."



Yeah, he has them a while on Christmas eve and then again on Christmas day ( around like 4 to probably 8ish).



Like I've said though, I'm trying to put my feelings aside of HIM, for the kids, and it's working really well actually.

The Doctor 2 kids; Boulder, CO, United States 60753 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" Yeah, he has them a while on Christmas eve and then again on Christmas day ( around like 4 to probably ... [snip!] ... Like I've said though, I'm trying to put my feelings aside of HIM, for the kids, and it's working really well actually. "


That's awesome! BD isn't taking DD for any of Christmas. His choice.



But, I would allow him to come over if he wanted to. But not a new girlfriend.