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Mama*Kayla* 2 kids; Ontario 292 posts
18th Dec '12

if me and my ex were on good terms and they have been together for a while, like at least a year, then yes

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting Blythe.:" If your kids are around her anyway then yea"


This is how I look at it, TBH. I bought something for my ex husbands new gf for Christmas. Kind of just like an Olive Branch. ( Nothing big, a $10 gift card to Dunkin Donuts lol).

3rdxsacharm Due April 29 (girl); 2 kids; Burdett, New York 159 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" I don't have to deal with this yet, because the kids are going with their dad Christmas eve (a few hours), and a couple hours on Christmas Day. "

That's what I would do too... My oldest DD has always gone to her fathers a different time and I have always had her Christmas morning.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
18th Dec '12

Id like to say yes, but she did a lot during our custody battle that I just won't let go, i have to have a relationship with my ex and that's all I have to do,



Buuut, my husband and ex are really cool now, I'm glad they are able to have a good relationship...

MamaCass{+JOE} 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Pennsylvania 42360 posts
18th Dec '12

Um....definitely not, lol.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14181 posts
18th Dec '12

If she was nice and planned on being a part of the kids' lives I would. But I can't imagine any woman my DH picking after me would be that nice lol.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting Supafly★:" If she was nice and planned on being a part of the kids' lives I would. But I can't imagine any woman my DH picking after me would be that nice lol. "


:lol:

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14181 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" :lol:"



I just picture an overweight Polish girl from the hills with a potty mouth and a bad dye job.....kind of like his last 2 exes lol.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting Supafly★:" I just picture an overweight Polish girl from the hills with a potty mouth and a bad dye job.....kind of like his last 2 exes lol. "



Well I mean, that's what we call an INFORMED decision. :wink:. We need to talk on the phone.. SOON! I miss your voice.

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 585 posts
18th Dec '12

i would invite her over it wouldnt matter if we just got devoriced or its been years...it shows the kids you still respect your ex their dad and to me christmas is about being together not holding on to grudges

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting Alicia Holz:" i would invite her over it wouldnt matter if we just got devoriced or its been years...it shows the kids ... [snip!] ... shows the kids you still respect your ex their dad and to me christmas is about being together not holding on to grudges"



I truly agree with this.



My kids will be around this girl, whether I like her or not, it'll be easier on ALL of us, if we all try to at least get along. Once again, obviously, this isn't my problem this year, but it may in the future.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14181 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" Well I mean, that's what we call an INFORMED decision. :wink:. We need to talk on the phone.. SOON! I miss your voice. "


IKR? Tomorrow I'm making cupcakes all morning. We should totally exchange rants. :)

Alicia Holz 2 kids; Fond du Lac, Wisconsin 585 posts
18th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kayla [:)]♥:</b>" I agree with this, though I wouldn't invite them over if they just got together... Mostly confusion ... [snip!] ... for the kids, no grudges or anything. I also wouldn't have my kids meet my boyfriend until we've been together at least a year."</blockquote>




this i agree with

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59981 posts
18th Dec '12

No, especially because BD can't even be civil enough to come over to my house. So obviously, his girlfriend wouldn't come, either.



However, in the event that BD could be civil, wanted to come over, and had been with his girlfriend for long enough to be considered serious, yes.

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting The Doctor:" No, especially because BD can't even be civil enough to come over to my house. So obviously, his girlfriend ... [snip!] ... that BD could be civil, wanted to come over, and had been with his girlfriend for long enough to be considered serious, yes."


You know my story, well what I've put on here. And I wouldn't considered them SERIOUS, but he hasn't told the kids that it's his girlfriend or fiancee or whatever the f**k they are. When she's met the kids, she was strictly just " Daddy's friend." Nothing more. He doesn't plan to transition to "girlfriend" till they've been together for a while.