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having abortion tomorrow Skylee's Mommy♥ 17 kids; Covina, California 7 posts
18th Dec '12

I'm having an abortion tomorrow (12/19/12)
I'm 6 weeks along, I'm feeling very scared and nervous. I've been crying for the last three days. I know I'm making the right decision. I'm just so upset I have to go through this. Never in a million years did I think this would happen to me. My now ex, who I have a 3 year old with, got me pregnant on purpose. He did it without my knowledge or consent. He confessed to doing it. It makes me so angry that he didn't think about the consequences.
Part of me doesn't want to go through with the abortion. Just knowing I have a little baby growing inside me, I cant bare to go through with it. But I just have to keep reminding myself I am making the right choice. I wish I had someone close to talk about this with, and to give me some advice, but sadly I don't.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20268 posts
18th Dec '12

im so sorry, but, how did he do it without your consent or permission?

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5430 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" im so sorry, but, how did he do it without your consent or permission?"


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Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
18th Dec '12

You'll do okay. And how did he get you pregnant on purpose?.. why were you not on birth control or making sure he had a condom? :S

BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 65750 posts
18th Dec '12

I'm sorry mama. I have been there. Feel free to PM me if you need someone to talk to. Good luck.



*hugs*

GirlsHaveCOOTIES 3 kids; Minsk, Belarus 15331 posts
18th Dec '12

Don't do it yet if you have doubts.. It's something you can never take back.

Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40239 posts
18th Dec '12

I'm sorry Momma.



Best wishes.

Carters mama <3 Due February 19; 1 child; Portland, Oregon 4867 posts
18th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HotMom21ERF:</b>" im so sorry, but, how did he do it without your consent or permission?"</blockquote>




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And more importantly, why? Does e want to be with you again?

† Phoenix † 1 angel baby; 16167 posts
18th Dec '12

Damn that sucks, i am sorry you have to go through this.
Have you thought about doing a pro and cons list to help reassure yourself your doing the right thing?

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
18th Dec '12

Your the one that had sex with him obviosuly without protection, So you did kinda give him consent and permission. And im sorry you have to go through that. Good luck

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49255 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" Your the one that had sex with him obviosuly without protection, So you did kinda give him consent and permission. And im sorry you have to go through that. Good luck"


You don't know protection wasn't involved. Guys have been known to f**k with condoms.

bloopbloop♥ 1 child; Illinois 13700 posts
18th Dec '12

I'm sorry you have to go through this. :(

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22792 posts
18th Dec '12

I'm sorry you have to go through this



Best wishes

IDID-VBAC 12/09 2 kids; Alaska 44106 posts
18th Dec '12

If you have doubts, dont do it. A friend had doubts but did it and she regrets it everyday, it is painful to watch her go through what she is going through. I am sorry you are going through it, but you need to be certain about your decision.

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
18th Dec '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" You don't know protection wasn't involved. Guys have been known to f**k with condoms."


Well then she should have been on BC if she didnt want to be pregnant again. Thats the only way you can be sure that you are protecting yourself, and even then it doesnt always work.
Either way it doesnt matter now. Hopefully she does what is best for her.