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loser mom 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, Norway, ,,, Europe 12277 posts
Dec 18th '12

*hugs*



user banned Logan, Utah 3594 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" Your the one that had sex with him obviosuly without protection, So you did kinda give him consent and permission. And im sorry you have to go through that. Good luck"


You don't know the back story so you can't accuse her of giving permission, what if he poked holes in the condom without her knowing?



You really shouldnt start drama in the "abortion survivors" section, this is where people go to discuss something painful and get support, not judgements and drama.

notafullbagofsugar Due February 29 (twins); 2 kids; 2 angel babies; stoke, uk, United Kingdom 5356 posts
Dec 18th '12

you cant assume she wasnt on BC i had a friend who boyfriend was swapping her pill for an antihistamine

Squid Kid Unavailable, NA, United States 32450 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" Well then she should have been on BC if she didnt want to be pregnant again. Thats the only way you ... [snip!] ... yourself, and even then it doesnt always work. Either way it doesnt matter now. Hopefully she does what is best for her."


Guys can f**k with BC.

♔ BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 84366 posts
status Dec 18th '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):</b>" Well then she should have been on ... [snip!] ... matter now. Hopefully she does what is best for her."</blockquote> Or she can have an abortion and you can stfu?"


:D:D

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8816 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting Brat ✖ Status:" You don't know the back story so you can't accuse her of giving permission, what if he poked holes in ... [snip!] ... "abortion survivors" section, this is where people go to discuss something painful and get support, not judgements and drama."


I didnt actually i stated that im sorry she has to go through this. Im not the one starting drama you guys are. I said that to be 100% sure that your protecting yourself we as woman need to be doing something not trusting that guys will wear a condom and not mess with it(which is totally nuts) but i guess they do it. I said i was sorry, and that i hope she doesnt what is best for her.
So maybe you should stop starting drama!

Skylee's Mommy♥ 17 kids; Covina, California 7 posts
Dec 18th '12


Quoting HotMom21ERF:" im so sorry, but, how did he do it without your consent or permission?"




I completely understand its my fault too I guess for "letting it happen" as most would think. Our form of birth control was the pull out method, and it was my stupid dumb mistake for believeing he was pulling out. He told me he was counting the days after I had my period to try to get me pregnant.

user banned Colorado 21030 posts
Dec 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):</b>" Well then she should have been on ... [snip!] ... matter now. Hopefully she does what is best for her."</blockquote> Or she can have an abortion and you can stfu?"</blockquote>




Yep, agree.
People quit being morons. The questions are unnecessary.



Just support.
Good luck OP!

Squid Kid Unavailable, NA, United States 32450 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" I didnt actually i stated that im sorry she has to go through this. Im not the one starting drama you ... [snip!] ... they do it. I said i was sorry, and that i hope she doesnt what is best for her. So maybe you should stop starting drama!"


You have no right to be guilt tripping her over such a harsh decision she is making. She is in way more than enough emotional pain and this statement is completely unnecessary. What's she going to do? Get a time machine now that you've made your speech?



God forbid you trust your SO. Or She could have even been date raped.

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8816 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting Squid Kid:" Guys can f**k with BC."


apparently they can f**k with anything. Thats pretty bad if thats the case. I wouldnt be letting my BC out of my sight. That would be terrible.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20983 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting Skylee's Mommy♥:" "

i see... well good luck hun i wish you the best

GavinsMomJohnnysWife 2 kids; Texas 2789 posts
Dec 18th '12
Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" Well then she should have been on BC if she didnt want to be pregnant again. Thats the only way you ... [snip!] ... yourself, and even then it doesnt always work. Either way it doesnt matter now. Hopefully she does what is best for her."


That is way too JUDGMENTAL and this is the Abortion Survivors forum. Take your crap elsewhere.
OP do what you need to do, but don't do it with regrets, hugs, and best wishes.

♔ BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 84366 posts
status Dec 18th '12
Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" I didnt actually i stated that im sorry she has to go through this. Im not the one starting drama you ... [snip!] ... they do it. I said i was sorry, and that i hope she doesnt what is best for her. So maybe you should stop starting drama!"


Or maybe you should realize that the only way of 100% protecting yourself is abstinence.



There is no "drama" here.

user banned Colorado 21030 posts
Dec 18th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Skylee's Mommy♥:</b>" "</blockquote>




Wow what an a*****e

*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8816 posts
Dec 18th '12

Oh no BC or condoms... you guys can stop bitching at me now :)



I still am truly sorry to OP that you are going through this, I cant imagine. It takes a strong person to make that decision for yourself, and to do the right thing even if your heart is telling you otherwise. I hope it is the best decision for you and i wish you all the luck :)
and from now on dont trust men! haha