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ugh It's so Fluffayy! Due March 17; 19 kids; Texas 4279 posts
19th Dec '12

I just can't shake the feeling that dh didn't cheat on me. It's so hard without solid proof. He swears he didn't but it keeps creeping on me. All I found were half deleted texts...but that's it. He said his friend was using his phone.



I don't believe him because she tried so hard to make sure I wasn't the one texting...but I partly believe him because I love him.



I don't want to end my marriage when I have no proof yet I don't want to feel. Like an idiot...

Onalee's Mummy Due August 26; 1 child; Newcastle, Australia 5355 posts
19th Dec '12

Would you leave him if he had?



When my ex did all I wanted was for him to be honest with me I never woul have left because of it a long as I knew the truth an it wouldn't happen again. (We broke up for other reasons in the end)

It's so Fluffayy! Due March 17; 19 kids; Texas 4279 posts
19th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" Would you leave him if he had? When my ex did all I wanted was for him to be honest with me I never ... [snip!] ... woul have left because of it a long as I knew the truth an it wouldn't happen again. (We broke up for other reasons in the end)"</blockquote>




Honestly I don't think I would, I just want him to be honest with me.

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" Would you leave him if he had? When my ... [snip!] ... up for other reasons in the end)"</blockquote> Honestly I don't think I would, I just want him to be honest with me."


I hope he's not cheating, but how do you expect him to respect you and not cheat on you if you're just going to forgive him anyways? I'm sorry but just because he cheats and is honest about it doesn't make it any better, there is no difference between hiding it and telling the truth about it. He probably know's that about you, because if he cared if he lost you and knew that if he cheated he'd lose you...he wouldn't have done it in the first place. People make mistakes but this is not one of those dumb mistakes, he know's what he's doing which is why he's hiding it.

It's so Fluffayy! Due March 17; 19 kids; Texas 4279 posts
19th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:</b>" I hope he's not cheating, but how do you expect him to respect you and not cheat on you if you're just ... [snip!] ... place. People make mistakes but this is not one of those dumb mistakes, he know's what he's doing which is why he's hiding it."</blockquote>



I know that but we've talked so much about it and he said he sees where it looked wrong and it's just hard with no proof. We've been working hard on our marriage and hesaid he wouldn't ruin that for anything and he seemed sincere.

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:</b>" I hope he's not cheating, but how ... [snip!] ... with no proof. We've been working hard on our marriage and hesaid he wouldn't ruin that for anything and he seemed sincere."


Actions speak louder than words. I don't see the point in this post if you were just planning on making excuses for his actions that you were obviously unhappy or uncomfortable with. I was just giving my opinion.

It's so Fluffayy! Due March 17; 19 kids; Texas 4279 posts
19th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:</b>" Actions speak louder than words. I don't see the point in this post if you were just planning on making ... [snip!] ... planning on making excuses for his actions that you were obviously unhappy or uncomfortable with. I was just giving my opinion."</blockquote>



I was venting out my frustration, that simple. I am not making excuses my thing is not having solid proof if there was infidelity.

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:</b>" Actions speak louder than words. ... [snip!] ... venting out my frustration, that simple. I am not making excuses my thing is not having solid proof if there was infidelity."


I'm just saying when people get that gut feeling, it's usually right. If you guys are working on your marriage that's great! Anyone can say anything at any given time and not really mean it, actions speak louder than words. If you can't handle what people have to say about this then you should delete this post because I'm sure I'm not the only one who is thinking the same. Just don't blind yourself completely, because if you do find out that your intuition was right all along....you will fall harder. Like I said, I hope he's not. Good luck!