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Sex After Birth IROCKZ^_^ 2 kids; Costa Rica 50 posts
19th Dec '12

My daughter is now 1 month & 3 weeks
My husband & i started having sex again about 2 weeks ago
i knew it was gonna hurt but we had sex at least 7 times already & it still hurts :/ not as much but it just feels so tight lol
even he tells me his penis hurts after we are done >.<
This didnt happen with my 1st born it only took 3 times & i was back to normal lol



>Has this happened to anyone? how long did it take for you to COMPLETELY enjoy sex ?<

XavierRose Due January 14; 2 kids; Gilbert, Arizona 1716 posts
19th Dec '12

yup. with DS who is my second. took 4 months before it didn't hurt

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 22071 posts
19th Dec '12

I breastfed and because that takes away all your estrogen apparently, it took me AT LEAST 9 - 12 months to enjoy it again. Fucking bs.

IROCKZ^_^ 2 kids; Costa Rica 50 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting XavierRose:" yup. with DS who is my second. took 4 months before it didn't hurt"


OH GEEZ ..THAT SUCKS
I HOPE I DONT TAKE SO LONG

Soon 2B Mom of 2 2 kids; North Highlands, California 3785 posts
19th Dec '12

I'm almost 18 months PP, and pregnant again, and it never went back the way it was. It still hurts :( I mostly just have sex just to make my Husband happy. I think I may have healed wrong or something, because as far as I know it isnt normal to take this long... Alot of women I have talked to went 100% back to normal after the first year.

Ꭶwan♥Nemo 1 child; Kansas City, Missouri 7416 posts
19th Dec '12

4 months PP

IROCKZ^_^ 2 kids; Costa Rica 50 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting Colt's mommy:" I breastfed and because that takes away all your estrogen apparently, it took me AT LEAST 9 - 12 months to enjoy it again. Fucking bs."


SERIOUSLY .
IM BREASTFEEDING TOO , I GUESS IM SCREWED LOL :/

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
19th Dec '12

5 years and it still hurts sometimes. It took almost a year to be bearable.

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 22071 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting IROCKZ^_^:" SERIOUSLY . IM BREASTFEEDING TOO , I GUESS IM SCREWED LOL :/"


Yeah, like I was so tight that DH could barely get his finger in :oops:

I had a c-sec too.

IROCKZ^_^ 2 kids; Costa Rica 50 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" I'm almost 18 months PP, and pregnant again, and it never went back the way it was. It still hurts :( ... [snip!] ... far as I know it isnt normal to take this long... Alot of women I have talked to went 100% back to normal after the first year."


I know i heard after the 1st yr you should be good



IROCKZ^_^ 2 kids; Costa Rica 50 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting Colt's mommy:" Yeah, like I was so tight that DH could barely get his finger in :oops: I had a c-sec too."


ouch i know i tried putting mine in too but i just cant :/
its ridiculous how it is
do you have trouble getting "wet" ? i heard its cuz of the breastfeeding?

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 22071 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting IROCKZ^_^:" ouch i know i tried putting mine in too but i just cant :/ its ridiculous how it is do you have trouble getting "wet" ? i heard its cuz of the breastfeeding?"


It is, but I've always had trouble with that anyway so it's nothing new. My OB suggested olive oil (If you're not using condoms). She gave me a vaginal estrogen cream that did really help but it also gave me a yeast infection :(

Zepplin's Mommy :) 1 child; Magnolia, Delaware 911 posts
19th Dec '12

with me it took about a handful of time before it started to be fine again, i didnt try till after 6weeks pp and every now and then it still hurts.