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vent. deletedasdfghjjk 1 child; London, United Kingdom 994 posts
19th Dec '12

I'm actually good on all that, cause just irritates me more.

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22282 posts
19th Dec '12

damn. Some friend you are. How f**king judgmental are you?

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
19th Dec '12

You are a raging f**king c**t. Really, she's a big cry baby bc she finds labor hard? Labor is hard, its exhausting. Who are you to judge?

deletedasdfghjjk 1 child; London, United Kingdom 994 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" You are a raging f**king c**t. Really, she's a big cry baby bc she finds labor hard? Labor is hard, its exhausting. Who are you to judge?"

i never said it wasnt hard. I said i am Disappointed that she got to a ten and decided to give up. the hard part is over, & she will have no help when he is here, and i also said this is A VENT , and i dont need your f**king snide ass comments. thanks. especially you, you never have anything but bitchy ass things to comment on my stuff.

Moose's Mama 18 kids; Moose, Wyoming 11443 posts
19th Dec '12

you really don't know until you've gone through labor yourself, something like that tires the f**k out of you.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22775 posts
status 19th Dec '12

I wouldn't want a friend like you honestly.

Lois. 1 child; Pennsylvania 2653 posts
19th Dec '12

Shouldn't you just be happy about the baby being born?
People like you make me happy that I only have a few friends.

deletedasdfghjjk 1 child; London, United Kingdom 994 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting Moose's Mama:" you really don't know until you've gone through labor yourself, something like that tires the f**k out of you."

um, Ive went through labor.

deletedasdfghjjk 1 child; London, United Kingdom 994 posts
19th Dec '12

actually shes family, but the situation is too complicated so I just put friend. Either way, I dont really care what youre happy about. you didn't need to comment.

Grniz 2 kids; Illinois 45669 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting .Sam.:" Shouldn't you just be happy about the baby being born? People like you make me happy that I only have a few friends."


this is why not a lot of people knew my labor details



~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
19th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiffany Gillette:</b>" i never said it wasnt hard. I said i am Disappointed that she got to a ten and decided to give up. the ... [snip!] ... your f**king snide ass comments. thanks. especially you, you never have anything but bitchy ass things to comment on my stuff. "</blockquote>




I don't even know who you are but.. Okay.




It's extremely common to feel like you want to give up, right at the very end. I know I felt that way, it's how my mw knew it was almost time.

LumpySpacePrincess 2 kids; New Zealand 17060 posts
19th Dec '12

Wow, so you were experiencing HER labour? You were able to feel how her body was handling it and you knew she could have kept going???



Man that is an amazing super power you have. Seems to be connected with the super power to be a judgemental cow. Might want to tone that down a bit.



I have had friends that have had epis, water births, c sections, all ranges of birth. I don't judge them based on how I gave birth and I expect the same from them. I can't say how their bodies can handle labour and it's their decision what they do in that situation. And you would think as a friend you would support her in her decision and maybe think about helping her out since yes, she had a c section and it will be harder to look after her baby while she heals from that.



Jeez. I kinda hopes she comes up to you after she gets out and tells you how happy she is that her vagia isn't a gaping flesh hallway like yours cos she didn't have to give birth vaginally. But then you would just come on here and whinge about how your friend is so mean and judgemental :roll:

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting Tiffany Gillette:" i never said it wasnt hard. I said i am Disappointed that she got to a ten and decided to give up. the ... [snip!] ... your f**king snide ass comments. thanks. especially you, you never have anything but bitchy ass things to comment on my stuff. "

Okay, so she got to 10 cm, there are TONS of women who get to 10 cm, but because the baby is big, STILL end up needing a c-section, or because they ARE exhausted end up having a c-section because proceeding with labor could put both the health of mom and baby at risk. Instead of seeing at "giving up," look at the fact that she and her baby are fine and healthy.

deletedasdfghjjk 1 child; London, United Kingdom 994 posts
19th Dec '12

oh shut the f**k up all of you. i never said it wasnt hard. i said i was dissapointed that she gave up so quickly, because i know how hard itwill be for her with no f**king help. jesus christ, go somewhere else with all of your need to jump on the same bandwagon. so f**king annoying. & no but ive been thru labor, its no cake walk, but it pisses me off how doctors are so quick to just jump to a c section, theyre supposed to be there to encourage you at the end, BECAUSE ITS NO CAKE WALK. imagine that. now stfu,

deletedasdfghjjk 1 child; London, United Kingdom 994 posts
19th Dec '12

that wasnt her case, or i would have said that now wouldnt i ?