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When is your sex drive the highest? TMI warning W.W. 3 kids; Arkansas 7743 posts
19th Dec '12

Mine seems to be highest during the day or in the morning...when DH is at work unfortunately. By the time the girls are in bed and everything is cleaned up we are both so tired that either he is falling asleep with his face between my legs...or I'm just not able to focus and enjoy it enough to finish in a timely manner. Its frustrating for me because I NEED that intimacy... I'm a person that thrives off of affection and a healthy sex life. Its just not ideal during the day when the girls are awake and all. Do have this problem? Have you found a way to deal with it?

Commander Shepard 18 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 6447 posts
19th Dec '12

Mine is highest in the morning right before he leaves for work.




I masturbate, a lot.

Jacob'sKeeper 2 kids; Montana 8064 posts
19th Dec '12

Mine is during the day, or when I can't sleep at night and he's fast asleep. I don't even bother waking him and just take care of it myself lol.

2 Baby Girls Due May 19; 4 kids; Utah 3212 posts
19th Dec '12

Probably around 1 or 2 pm.

NewMommyXOXO 1 child; South Carolina 1183 posts
19th Dec '12

Late at night. I was a horndog also at the beginning of my pregnancy =P

W.W. 3 kids; Arkansas 7743 posts
19th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Commander Shepard:</b>" Mine is highest in the morning right before he leaves for work. I masturbate, a lot."</blockquote>



Yeah even if he would wake up early enough before work for us to have sex...our 3 year old has been sneaking into our room for the last few weeks ....



I was masturbating a lot the last month at least but it just doesn't do it for me like sex with DH does. *le sigh*

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
19th Dec '12

I want it ALL the time, but DH doesn't want it but once in a blue moon, and when he does want it, its around 2-3am after his gaming and our movie. So I've been turning him down lately. So I've been playing DJ for a while.. So I masturbate alot :/

W.W. 3 kids; Arkansas 7743 posts
19th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I want it ALL the time, but DH doesn't want it but once in a blue moon, and when he does want it, its ... [snip!] ... his gaming and our movie. So I've been turning him down lately. So I've been playing DJ for a while.. So I masturbate alot :/ "</blockquote>



My husband is the same as far as not needing it as often as me...he usually blames being tired from work.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting I Love Dem Baybees!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I want it ALL the time, but DH doesn't ... [snip!] ... "</blockquote> My husband is the same as far as not needing it as often as me...he usually blames being tired from work."


I get that excuse too. That or, "Its too early, and I can't finish if I just woke up" (which is bullshit).
I guess we will have to be celibate because he can't pick a reasonable time.:roll:

W.W. 3 kids; Arkansas 7743 posts
19th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I get that excuse too. That or, "Its too early, and I can't finish if I just woke up" (which is bullshit). I guess we will have to be celibate because he can't pick a reasonable time.:roll:"</blockquote>



Its sad that I'm willing whenever he should want me but he acts like he can't do the same.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
19th Dec '12
Quoting I Love Dem Baybees!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I get that excuse too. That or, "Its ... [snip!] ... time.:roll:"</blockquote> Its sad that I'm willing whenever he should want me but he acts like he can't do the same."


I feel your pain. :( And after almost 5 years, I'm tired of waiting for him and his bad timing. So I told him that 2am is the cut off. You want sex, then get it in gear and make ME the priority, not your game. I'm not going to feel like sex if you keep putting me on the back burner. So he's been kinda pouty for the past couple days lol.
Maybe they will grow out of it?

W.W. 3 kids; Arkansas 7743 posts
20th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I feel your pain. :( And after almost 5 years, I'm tired of waiting for him and his bad timing. So I ... [snip!] ... keep putting me on the back burner. So he's been kinda pouty for the past couple days lol. Maybe they will grow out of it? "</blockquote>



Good for you! Maybe he'll figure it out lol. Idk mine is 26 going on 27 in March...he needs to hit a sexual peak or something before too long lol.

jess_Hunter 1 child; California 1257 posts
23rd Dec '12

Well, I can't tell I can be without sex for a long time without wanting so bad. Anytime is fine.However, When I was pregnant I was the opposite, I wanted sex all the time. So all depends on every person I guess.