There is a little background on what's going on... I haven't been able to sleep, only taking 2 hour interrupted naps every day. that's it, that's how stressed out i am about all of this... I'm afraid this baby is not my boyfriend's. And if it isn't i know it will ruin us.. But what if it is? By the time i get the DNA test done, I will be probably around 14 weeks, and I will not feel comfortable getting an abortion.. I dont know what to do.. Either way, my heart is going to be broken.. I have nobody to talk to about this.
I'm sorry you are going through this. Are you only willing to keep the baby if it is your bf's?
So you'll keep you baby if it's your boyfriend's baby, but abort if it's not? Hmm... I'm sorry you're going through this.. don't have much advice, but good luck.
Im just afraid of bringing up another child by myself and having somebody resent me and the child for that.. I know my boyfriend would be there if it is his... He probably will if it isnt, but i can't do that to him. It's not fair. And then I feel terrible for thinking about aborting, because I really don't want to do that.. And I think it would kill me to give up a baby for adoption... I just dont know...
Have you talked to your boyfriend?
Does tour boyfriend know the fetus is possibly not his?
Have you told your BF that it might not be his or told your ex that he might be the dad? You need to be prepared for whatever happens
Yes, he knows. They both know about it.
<blockquote><b>Quoting Platypus:</b>" Yes, he knows. They both know about it. "</blockquote>
So how do they feel?
Quoting Platypus:" Yes, he knows. They both know about it. "
And what are their thoughts about the situation?
my boyfriend is really really hoping it is his.. And my ex/friend says he wants to keep it, but there's been drama ever since.. Especially with his friends telling him i'm lying to him about how when you're pregnant they count from your LMP and not date of conception to calculate to weeks :roll: . He's just immature, no job, etc.