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I dont really know where else to post this. Platypus Due March 17; 1 child; Massachusetts 2633 posts
20th Dec '12

http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about2404663.html



There is a little background on what's going on... I haven't been able to sleep, only taking 2 hour interrupted naps every day. that's it, that's how stressed out i am about all of this... I'm afraid this baby is not my boyfriend's. And if it isn't i know it will ruin us.. But what if it is? By the time i get the DNA test done, I will be probably around 14 weeks, and I will not feel comfortable getting an abortion.. I dont know what to do.. Either way, my heart is going to be broken.. I have nobody to talk to about this.

♥ Mrs. S ♥ Due September 20; 2 kids; Venezuela 13608 posts
20th Dec '12

I'm sorry you are going through this. Are you only willing to keep the baby if it is your bf's?

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
20th Dec '12

So you'll keep you baby if it's your boyfriend's baby, but abort if it's not? Hmm... I'm sorry you're going through this.. don't have much advice, but good luck.

Platypus Due March 17; 1 child; Massachusetts 2633 posts
20th Dec '12

Im just afraid of bringing up another child by myself and having somebody resent me and the child for that.. I know my boyfriend would be there if it is his... He probably will if it isnt, but i can't do that to him. It's not fair. And then I feel terrible for thinking about aborting, because I really don't want to do that.. And I think it would kill me to give up a baby for adoption... I just dont know...

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
20th Dec '12

Have you talked to your boyfriend?

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
20th Dec '12

Does tour boyfriend know the fetus is possibly not his?

⚓Misty⚓ 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7275 posts
20th Dec '12

Have you told your BF that it might not be his or told your ex that he might be the dad? You need to be prepared for whatever happens

Platypus Due March 17; 1 child; Massachusetts 2633 posts
20th Dec '12

Yes, he knows. They both know about it.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
20th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Platypus:</b>" Yes, he knows. They both know about it. "</blockquote>




So how do they feel?

⚓Misty⚓ 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7275 posts
20th Dec '12
Quoting Platypus:" Yes, he knows. They both know about it. "


And what are their thoughts about the situation?

Platypus Due March 17; 1 child; Massachusetts 2633 posts
20th Dec '12

my boyfriend is really really hoping it is his.. And my ex/friend says he wants to keep it, but there's been drama ever since.. Especially with his friends telling him i'm lying to him about how when you're pregnant they count from your LMP and not date of conception to calculate to weeks :roll: . He's just immature, no job, etc.