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What would you do in this situation? Loveroftheoath Due June 17; Japan 8 posts
20th Dec '12

You have a bf and he does drugs you know about it but you love him anyway. He's 23 and he has a good place to stay and everything. You didn't know what type of stuff he did the job he had actually the. Relationship is sort of long distanced a
your parents disapprove of it eventually. And you end up moving in with him die to argument with parents. That was 6 months ago. He apparently is connected to a lot of illegal activity drugs prostitution etc... It's a matter of time before he's forcing you into some of these avenues and anyway it lasted about 4 months and then you're caught up by the police. And are in legal trouble along with trouble with family and on top of all that you're pregnant. And you've been using drugs long enough to get addicted yet you're still uncomfortable with abortion and feel you're far along what is the right thing to do?

The Pretty Poodle™ 1 child; Illinois 7341 posts
20th Dec '12

1. get to a shelter or family member IMMEDIATELY.
2. Get help cleaning out your system, you cant think straight when you're fucked up.
3. Decide if you have what it takes to be a good mother, if not do the right thing.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
20th Dec '12

If I were in that situation, I would have an abortion immediately, move back in with my parents (if they allowed me to), find a full time job, start saving up for my own place, and start over. I would never talk to this guy again.

lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA* 21 kids; Sherwood, Arkansas 17987 posts
20th Dec '12

Abort, deal with the legal consequences and get help to get clean and live a clean life. never talk to the "boyfriend" again and try to fix things with family.

laurenmik 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 7222 posts
20th Dec '12

You get help. Get into rehab and out of that kind of relationship even if you don't go through with the pregnancy. Good luck

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56008 posts
20th Dec '12

I'd abort and seek help.



Really, get some help. Before this gets out of control

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
20th Dec '12

That was hard to read.

From what I understood though, I'd make the decision whether I want to keep a child with a person like this. Apologize to my parents, ask if I can move back in with them & get a lawyer.

Loveroftheoath Due June 17; Japan 8 posts
20th Dec '12

Sorry wrong section

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11012 posts
status 20th Dec '12
Quoting bbbt:" If I were in that situation, I would have an abortion immediately, move back in with my parents (if they ... [snip!] ... allowed me to), find a full time job, start saving up for my own place, and start over. I would never talk to this guy again. "


This!

LIVE.OUT.LOUD Due July 11 (boy); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lawrenceville, Georgia 1624 posts
20th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting That Black Kid™:</b>" 1. get to a shelter or family member IMMEDIATELY. 2. Get help cleaning out your system, you cant think ... [snip!] ... cant think straight when you're fucked up. 3. Decide if you have what it takes to be a good mother, if not do the right thing."</blockquote>




This!

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22533 posts
status 20th Dec '12

Get out of the situation. Whether with your parents or a shelter or a friend or family member



I don't push abortion alot but in this situation I feel it may be the right thing to do. But you are uncomfortable with abortion. So I would go to rehab and then stay clean the rest of your pregnancy. And contemplate adoption

[♥]Mrs. Taylor 18 kids; Texas 12250 posts
20th Dec '12

Depending on how far along I am, I would have an abortion, cut all ties with the boyfriend and try and apologize to my family.



If I'm too far for the abortion, I would still cut ties with the boyfriend and try to talk to my family and get back on my feet. Fight for full custody of my baby and do what I have to do to support both of us.

P Pickle Pants 98 kids; California 20522 posts
20th Dec '12

1. Have nothing else to do with that guy
2. Get clean like NOW
3. Get to a doc and talk to him/ her about what I'd been doing and get ultrasounds to check on baby ASAP
4. Go crawling back to family and beg for forgiveness and help.
5. Get help through the system to provide for my baby.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
20th Dec '12

Are you really 16? Were you emancipated? Legally you are still under your parent's guardianship.

Loveroftheoath Due June 17; Japan 8 posts
20th Dec '12

I said I got out and I'm in a shelter now for troubled youth I'm 16 and 14 weeks pregnant which is why I'm uncomfortable with an abortion also I don't know if he's the dad tbh