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Caddy ÷ nwark, NJ, United States 9325 posts
22nd Dec '12

If my SO were to cheat, I would consider forgiving him... but if he were to cheat and not be smart enough to want to protect himself and I against STD's and unwanted pregnancies? I don't think I could stand that.



I would not only be hurt that he cheated, but that he was willing to risk STD's and pregnancy with another woman for one night of sex. Wrap it up.



Those to me ARE two separate things, he cheated AND he didn't care enough to protect himself and his family.

JohnSilverSmith TTC since Dec 2011; 3 kids; Groton, Connecticut 465 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" PLEASE DONT QUOTE! My husband cheated on me.. And he told me as soon as it happened. He cut all ties ... [snip!] ... I really just want to curl up in a ball and die. :( The world may not have actually wnded, but I feel like mine has tonight."

Let me know if you need to talk. My wife did this to me. I can feel your pain. TRUST me. No pregnancy, but she got STDs from the guy.

JohnSilverSmith TTC since Dec 2011; 3 kids; Groton, Connecticut 465 posts
24th Dec '12

Sorry about the quote by the way.

Estrella ♥ Luna 1 child; 766 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting Sweetheart...*:" Wooowwww I am sorry. Hopefully she aborts. That would be the best possible situation for everyone involved."


:? That's a horrible thing to say. It isn't the babies fault he cheated on his wife. If she wants to keep it so be it.




I'm sorry to hear you're going through this OP :(

Caddy ÷ nwark, NJ, United States 9325 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting JohnSilverSmith:" Sorry about the quote by the way."



Go back and edit your post to delete the quote.

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting Estrella ♥ Luna:" :? That's a horrible thing to say. It isn't the babies fault he cheated on his wife. If she wants to keep it so be it. I'm sorry to hear you're going through this OP :( "

Take your pro-life debate somewhere else.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
24th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Estrella ♥ Luna:</b>" :? That's a horrible thing to say. It isn't the babies fault he cheated on his wife. If she wants to keep it so be it. I'm sorry to hear you're going through this OP :( "</blockquote>




Too late, baby is gone now.

Estrella ♥ Luna 1 child; 766 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:" Take your pro-life debate somewhere else."

Where did I say I was pro-life? Where was I debating :lol::lol::lol:



It's the simple truth. If she wants to have that baby it's her choice. Take YOUR debate somewhere else.

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting Estrella ♥ Luna:" Where did I say I was pro-life? Where was I debating :lol::lol::lol: It's the simple truth. If she wants to have that baby it's her choice. Take YOUR debate somewhere else."

Its a bitchy thing to say, and the OP is going through enough, do not start drama in here

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Estrella ♥ Luna:</b>" :? That's a horrible thing to say. ... [snip!] ... to keep it so be it. I'm sorry to hear you're going through this OP :( "</blockquote> Too late, baby is gone now."

and it was the best thing to do

Estrella ♥ Luna 1 child; 766 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting Taryn - Anya's mommy:" Its a bitchy thing to say, and the OP is going through enough, do not start drama in here"

I was never starting drama. I will state my opinion where I feel the need too.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting Sweetheart...*:" Wooowwww I am sorry. Hopefully she aborts. That would be the best possible situation for everyone involved."


How do you know it's the best situation for her?

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
24th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" How do you know it's the best situation for her?"</blockquote>




It's been stated that its what the girl wants, she already had it done. Leave it alone.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" How do you know it's the best situation ... [snip!] ... for her?"</blockquote> It's been stated that its what the girl wants, she already had it done. Leave it alone."


I can comment on what I want thank you very much :).

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
24th Dec '12

I think maybe you should stay with your parents, or someone else over the holidays so you can clear your head. This is something that is going to take you some time to work out *hugs*.