Quoting Mother of 4 :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mother ... [snip!] ... with my ex husband while I was pregnant mine and my now husbands kid. So yep judge me all you want cause you know everything!"
I don't have to "know your story" to know that you married someone that cheated on their girlfriend with you. I just think it's kind of...naive... of you to be all okay with this and proud of it. "/
Here is my advice because I'm going through a similar situation and I know all women aren't strong enough to overcome their routine. First, make a list of why you two will not work. Then write out some affirmations. I.e., I can live without him, he doesn't define me, and so on and so on. Then, upon waking up every morning, read those lists. After that you have to stop all contact with him. If he calls and it's not for your child, act as if your busy and politely get off the phone. You have to start living for yourself. Get the life you had before him back or meet new people. If you only see these new men as friends then, so be it. Hang out with your friends. As long as you keep yourself occupied you have less time to think about him. When he wants to see his child let him get her and go. If he just stop by to see her you don't have to be in the same room. Let them play in the living room and you go in your room and find something to do. It is hard. I'm just now taking my advice. You'll get through it. You just have to stick with it so you can move on. God had someone got you and got you to be ready to receive that man you have to get rid of this distraction. Hope this helps :-)