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... Jacob'sKeeper 2 kids; Montana 8064 posts
22nd Dec '12

Gone

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10434 posts
22nd Dec '12

I thought the idea of a three sum would've been great for SO and I. It completely fucked up our relationship afterwards. I still think about it to this day and it makes me sick. :(



I know it's not the same idea but I guess it's similar.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
22nd Dec '12

I would be open to it, but that would never fly with DH.

Jacob'sKeeper 2 kids; Montana 8064 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting shelbylynn [25 WEEKS!]:" I thought the idea of a three sum would've been great for SO and I. It completely fucked up our relationship ... [snip!] ... I still think about it to this day and it makes me sick. :( I know it's not the same idea but I guess it's similar."


He suggested a 3some but I wouldn't even go there lol. I've had em before and they're only good if it's 3 single people.

Just Emily :) Due June 22; 1 child; Brownsville, Tn, United States 6267 posts
22nd Dec '12

Dh is the first non open relationship I've been in. It's been an adjustment for me. But in the past it's always worked out for me.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
22nd Dec '12

I wouldn't do it. DH wouldn't do it, either.I hate the idea of it.



And if your sex drive is that low, there's no reason for you to need to have sex with someone else anyway IMO.

Jacob'sKeeper 2 kids; Montana 8064 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Supafly★:" I would be open to it, but that would never fly with DH. "


Yeah, I couldn't do that but I'd let him do it. We're super open with each other. I've never been like this sexually with anyone before.

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5420 posts
22nd Dec '12

no we haven't. I've talked to DH about it and he doesn't think he will ever want to do something like that. I'm actually very thankful. The only reason I talked to him about it was because I feel it's important to know the person's stance of whom you're married to. And personally, I don't think it's for me either. I don't knock it though, if couples are happy then more power to them.

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
22nd Dec '12

No. I am married. If we wanted to screw other people, we would get a divorce.

[JadeLee] 1 child; Minnesota 12190 posts
22nd Dec '12

I have suggested it.
SO said it would never happen with his approval.



I was like we could just do something every few years to remind me how much better you are than anyone else. He thinks it would backfire. I told him out of 20 people or whatever, he was the only one that could make me squirt. And that makes him better than anyone.

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
22nd Dec '12

No, never.



He would never go for it.

Jacob'sKeeper 2 kids; Montana 8064 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Mayhem.:" I wouldn't do it. DH wouldn't do it, either.I hate the idea of it. And if your sex drive is that low, there's no reason for you to need to have sex with someone else anyway IMO."


I don't want to have sex with anyone else, I told him he could.

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10434 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting bananapancakes:" He suggested a 3some but I wouldn't even go there lol. I've had em before and they're only good if it's 3 single people."


That's for sure! We were both not in our right minds tho. Something that will NEVER happen again.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting bananapancakes:" Yeah, I couldn't do that but I'd let him do it. We're super open with each other. I've never been like this sexually with anyone before."


I'm 75% sure I'd let him - he already confessed that he has the hots for his 45 year old secretary and I laughed. I really don't think I'd have a problem with it but there are a couple girls that would be off limits.

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Mayhem.:" I wouldn't do it. DH wouldn't do it, either.I hate the idea of it. And if your sex drive is that low, there's no reason for you to need to have sex with someone else anyway IMO."


I agree. If the thought of f**king someone else turns him on and YOU can't even do that, its time to reevaluate your marriage.