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I reallllllly f**king hate my SO. Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
22nd Dec '12

Is anyone else with me? I know I am bound on all the replies with why don't you just leave him.........I PLAN ON IT!



waiting for my f**king tax return and then I'm peacing the f**k out.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49251 posts
22nd Dec '12

No, actually I love my husband. He's amazing in more ways than one.

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5420 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" No, actually I love my husband. He's amazing in more ways than one."



same, but sorry OP for whatever he did to piss you off so bad.

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Christina Getty:" Is anyone else with me? I know I am bound on all the replies with why don't you just leave him.........I PLAN ON IT! waiting for my f**king tax return and then I'm peacing the f**k out."


lol @ this. just stick to it. don't change your mind in the meantime.



i have problems with my bf, as most people do. but i still love him and i don't really want to leave. but i am glad you're planning to if you're really that unhappy! good luck!

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
22nd Dec '12

I'm irrationally pissed at SO.. but I still love him.



Sorry you are unhappy. :(

Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5412 posts
22nd Dec '12

sometimes he bugs the f**king crap outta me. but my SO is overall a really great guy and has been a faithful partner and a amazing father... but somedays I wanna smack him on the side of head for having to remind him to take out the trash 10 times lol :twisted:

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
22nd Dec '12

I love the responses why don't you just leave? Sometimes it's not so easy to just walk away

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49446 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" No, actually I love my husband. He's amazing in more ways than one."

same

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5420 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I love the responses why don't you just leave? Sometimes it's not so easy to just walk away "


:!:
and sometimes the situation is something that could be worked on. I never tell someone to leave their SO unless he is abusive towards them or their child. Or cheats, is an alcoholic/drug addict, or something along those lines BUT isn't willing to work on/change things.

*J* 50 kids; 14412 posts
22nd Dec '12

Sucks you have to wait so long to get out of a situation you hate. I wish you the best of luck in sticking to your plan and giving yourself a better, happier life.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49251 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" I'm irrationally pissed at SO.. but I still love him. Sorry you are unhappy. :("


I get like that too. He REALLY pisses me off, but even when I'm most angry at him I still love him more than anything.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49251 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting melindapple:" :!: and sometimes the situation is something that could be worked on. I never tell someone to leave ... [snip!] ... their child. Or cheats, is an alcoholic/drug addict, or something along those lines BUT isn't willing to work on/change things."


Even with abuse it's HARD. I was in an abusive marriage, and I tried from less than four months after we got married to leave. Ran away 2 or 3 times, he always drug me back. Took 3 years before he'd let me go.

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
22nd Dec '12

i love my husband. we've been married for 8 years. we're eachothers best friend...



i hope you find someone you can love and cherish, who feels the same about you

☮Hippie Jesus☮ 2 kids; West Virginia 10560 posts
22nd Dec '12

I was there this time last year.... and I too decided as soon as tax returns came, I was out... and I really was. Now, never better. :)

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5420 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Even with abuse it's HARD. I was in an abusive marriage, and I tried from less than four months after ... [snip!] ... four months after we got married to leave. Ran away 2 or 3 times, he always drug me back. Took 3 years before he'd let me go."


Oh I was agreeing that it's hard. I was just saying that's the only time I'd give advice to leave.