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I reallllllly fucking hate my SO. Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
22nd Dec '12

Is anyone else with me? I know I am bound on all the replies with why don't you just leave him.........I PLAN ON IT!



waiting for my fucking tax return and then I'm peacing the fuck out.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
22nd Dec '12

No, actually I love my husband. He's amazing in more ways than one.

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" No, actually I love my husband. He's amazing in more ways than one."



same, but sorry OP for whatever he did to piss you off so bad.

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Christina Getty:" Is anyone else with me? I know I am bound on all the replies with why don't you just leave him.........I PLAN ON IT! waiting for my fucking tax return and then I'm peacing the fuck out."


lol @ this. just stick to it. don't change your mind in the meantime.



i have problems with my bf, as most people do. but i still love him and i don't really want to leave. but i am glad you're planning to if you're really that unhappy! good luck!

Smokey_Taboo Due April 22; 1 child; California 5480 posts
22nd Dec '12

sometimes he bugs the fucking crap outta me. but my SO is overall a really great guy and has been a faithful partner and a amazing father... but somedays I wanna smack him on the side of head for having to remind him to take out the trash 10 times lol :twisted:

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
22nd Dec '12

I love the responses why don't you just leave? Sometimes it's not so easy to just walk away

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" No, actually I love my husband. He's amazing in more ways than one."

same

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" I love the responses why don't you just leave? Sometimes it's not so easy to just walk away "


:!:
and sometimes the situation is something that could be worked on. I never tell someone to leave their SO unless he is abusive towards them or their child. Or cheats, is an alcoholic/drug addict, or something along those lines BUT isn't willing to work on/change things.

*J* 50 kids; 14412 posts
22nd Dec '12

Sucks you have to wait so long to get out of a situation you hate. I wish you the best of luck in sticking to your plan and giving yourself a better, happier life.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" I'm irrationally pissed at SO.. but I still love him. Sorry you are unhappy. :("


I get like that too. He REALLY pisses me off, but even when I'm most angry at him I still love him more than anything.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting melindapple:" :!: and sometimes the situation is something that could be worked on. I never tell someone to leave ... [snip!] ... their child. Or cheats, is an alcoholic/drug addict, or something along those lines BUT isn't willing to work on/change things."


Even with abuse it's HARD. I was in an abusive marriage, and I tried from less than four months after we got married to leave. Ran away 2 or 3 times, he always drug me back. Took 3 years before he'd let me go.

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
22nd Dec '12

i love my husband. we've been married for 8 years. we're eachothers best friend...



i hope you find someone you can love and cherish, who feels the same about you

☮Hippie Jesus☮ 2 kids; West Virginia 10560 posts
22nd Dec '12

I was there this time last year.... and I too decided as soon as tax returns came, I was out... and I really was. Now, never better. :)

melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Even with abuse it's HARD. I was in an abusive marriage, and I tried from less than four months after ... [snip!] ... four months after we got married to leave. Ran away 2 or 3 times, he always drug me back. Took 3 years before he'd let me go."


Oh I was agreeing that it's hard. I was just saying that's the only time I'd give advice to leave.

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
22nd Dec '12

i just...dont even know how to describe him. He is such a downer, so negative, has anger issues. I just know I would be happier alone..with my daughter or course. I feel like punching him in the throat.