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Jax 3 kids; Sydney, NS, Australia 2888 posts
25th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Master:</b>" That's a load of bullshit. I'm in a BDSM relationship and you better believe that spanking happens for disciplinary reasons a LOT."</blockquote>




Totally off topic.....



I didn't even know bdsm relationships really existed lol

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
25th Dec '12
Quoting Mumzy...:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Master:</b>" That's a load of bullshit. I'm in a BDSM relationship ... [snip!] ... reasons a LOT."</blockquote> Totally off topic..... I didn't even know bdsm relationships really existed lol"


What? ... Yes ... of course they do.
Its not something made up by the ridiculous 50 Shades book

Jax 3 kids; Sydney, NS, Australia 2888 posts
25th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Master:</b>" What? ... Yes ... of course they do. Its not something made up by the ridiculous 50 Shades book"</blockquote>



Haha I know. Guess it's just cause iv never actually heard someone say that they are in that kind of relationship.
I can only imagine that it's anything like the books :)

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
25th Dec '12
Quoting Mumzy...:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Master:</b>" What? ... Yes ... of course they do. Its not ... [snip!] ... actually heard someone say that they are in that kind of relationship. I can only imagine that it's anything like the books :)"


Yeah nothing like it at all. Nobody I know in the lifestyle has a contract ... in fact the whole thing was insulting

Clk 2 kids; Dexter, Michigan 11973 posts
25th Dec '12

My husband and I do not smack, hit, punch, pinch, spank, beat their butt in, or whatever else people call it. Heck I had a friend you called it tickling, her child was scared anyone mentioned tickling. To us it's using physical pain and emotional fear to gain control over the child. We believe in working with the child, such as comforting them, and helping them to understand their emotional outburst.



Oh and before anyone tells me this, no we don't give in to tantrums, and no our kids are not spoiled, and I seriously doubt they will go to prison because they are not spanked.



Now I am also not perfect and did once spank our oldest when she wasn't even one years old out of shear frustration. We both ended up on the ground crying, and I apologized. I guess I just don't have the heart to give my kids physical pain.

Tarynosaurus Rex San Antonio, Texas 1271 posts
25th Dec '12
Quoting The Master:" That's a load of bullshit. I'm in a BDSM relationship and you better believe that spanking happens for disciplinary reasons a LOT."


Omg BDSM is a consensual lifestyle that two adults CONSENT to. It is ILLEGAL to hit an adult without their consent.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75035 posts
status 25th Dec '12
Quoting The Master:" That's a load of bullshit. I'm in a BDSM relationship and you better believe that spanking happens for disciplinary reasons a LOT."

Without consent, eh?

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
25th Dec '12
Quoting Δ ☮ ∂:" Without consent, eh?"


in the comment I quoted consent was never mentioned ... in fact it was never mentioned until I commented

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75035 posts
status 25th Dec '12
Quoting The Master:" in the comment I quoted consent was never mentioned ... in fact it was never mentioned until I commented"

Wut? lol. Why would it need to be mentioned? An adult consenting to being hit isn't the same as an adult having complete control over physically punishing a child.

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
25th Dec '12
Quoting Δ ☮ ∂:" Wut? lol. Why would it need to be mentioned? An adult consenting to being hit isn't the same as an adult having complete control over physically punishing a child."


just the way she was saying it made me want to comment

SosaFam Sosa Japan 32 posts
26th Dec '12

Yes. When they are old enough to understand exactly whey they had to suffer the consequense.

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Alabama 8386 posts
26th Dec '12
Quoting Jennybananna:" Thats not fact its a matter of opinion and a parenting choice. Spanking is never my first choice of discipline ... [snip!] ... and let her know I love you. Its not right for every child and its not right for every situation and never out of anger. "


:!: Agreed.



This applies to me too.