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Jane.Doe. Fukushima, Japan 2805 posts
22nd Dec '12

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Jamie & Baby Aria 1 child; Ahmeek, Michigan 2612 posts
status 22nd Dec '12
Quoting Unique Mama:" I am also against abortion for me personally (every one else it's their choice as far as I'm concerned) ... [snip!] ... as you can. But most of all, trust your doctors. They would not advise an abortion unless it was the very last option."

Thank you. I know the only reason I'm considering is I don't want to hurt myself and this new baby if I continue the pregnancy. My OB is on maternity leave but I do have an appt about my antidepressants with a different one the first week of January so I'll ask him.

Jane.Doe. Fukushima, Japan 2805 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Unique Mama:" .................."


Ignore this, posted before I meant to!

Jamie & Baby Aria 1 child; Ahmeek, Michigan 2612 posts
status 22nd Dec '12
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Jamie & Baby Aria 1 child; Ahmeek, Michigan 2612 posts
status 22nd Dec '12
Quoting Jenna+1:" You never know 100% what could happen. You could be totally ok through this pregnancy and it be some ... [snip!] ... choice. Make the decision you feel most comfortable with. Good luck and you'll be in my prayers no matter what choice you make."


That's what I was thinking. I'm hoping if I stay pregnant that everything will be good. But I know I am a very high risk. Not to mention, I forgot to put earlier. After I gave birth I hemmorhaged and almost died, so that's another bad thing. And I suffered a uterine infection 8 days PP, so being pregnant so soon my OBs said would be putting myself at risk for all of the above again.



Thankk you so much

Jamie & Baby Aria 1 child; Ahmeek, Michigan 2612 posts
status 22nd Dec '12
Quoting Unique Mama:" Ignore this, posted before I meant to!"

Its okay

Jamie & Baby Aria 1 child; Ahmeek, Michigan 2612 posts
status 22nd Dec '12
Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::" Its okay lol. And yeah, the only reason I have to wait is because of how risky my last pregnancy was. ... [snip!] ... my last pregnancy was. I ended up with a perfectly healthy preemie.But I don't know if I'd get that lucky twice. Thank you."

ETA I forgot to say yeah I'm afraid to regret it because I really don't want one. But I know I would feel worse if I got to like the third trimester and things took a turn for the worst again, but worse this time :?

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
22nd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::</b>" That's what I was thinking. I'm hoping if I stay pregnant that everything will be good. But I know I ... [snip!] ... days PP, so being pregnant so soon my OBs said would be putting myself at risk for all of the above again. Thankk you so much"</blockquote>




Aw I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that. That must have been scary but I'm glad you and your LO ended up ok. Each pregnancy is different so that might work in your favor. Like I said, it's all your choice. Just collect all the info you can and go from there. I really hope it all works out for you.

Jamie & Baby Aria 1 child; Ahmeek, Michigan 2612 posts
status 22nd Dec '12
Quoting Jenna+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::</b>" That's what I was thinking. I'm ... [snip!] ... Like I said, it's all your choice. Just collect all the info you can and go from there. I really hope it all works out for you."

Thank you. It really was scary, especially the fact that she had to come early, because of my BP. I know with my diabetes every pregnancy will keep being high risk. I'm just so confused.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22792 posts
22nd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::</b>" Yeah I'm very visual. Seeing that helps me too but I'm just afraid of what outweighs the other."</blockquote>




I understand. I can't tell you what to do but in a situation similar to yours if I were in it I would get an abortion. It wouldn't be worth the risk to my health and it wouldn't be worth it to risk my health with an existing child. But whatever you decide is the best thing for you!

~Elliott's.Mommy~ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Eugene, Oregon 3801 posts
22nd Dec '12

Good luck Jamie. I'll support you no matter what :)

Jamie & Baby Aria 1 child; Ahmeek, Michigan 2612 posts
status 22nd Dec '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::</b>" Yeah I'm very visual. Seeing that ... [snip!] ... health and it wouldn't be worth it to risk my health with an existing child. But whatever you decide is the best thing for you!"


I know, I keep telling myself I need to be here for Aria. But sometimes I'm naive and I also keep saying that since last time was bad this time HAS to be easier :roll: I know it could go either way but most things point to NO pregnancy of mine will be easy with my existing complications.



Thank you

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22792 posts
22nd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::</b>" I know, I keep telling myself I need to be here for Aria. But sometimes I'm naive and I also keep saying ... [snip!] ... it could go either way but most things point to NO pregnancy of mine will be easy with my existing complications. Thank you"</blockquote>




I would talk to your OB (I saw you are going to talk to him) before making any decision

Jamie & Baby Aria 1 child; Ahmeek, Michigan 2612 posts
status 22nd Dec '12
Quoting ~Elliott's.Mommy~:" Good luck Jamie. I'll support you no matter what :)"

Thanks Sarah :)

Mama of 2 monsters 18 kids; Lima, Ohio 236 posts
23rd Dec '12

I just got an abortion this month. My oldest is 4 and youngest is 7 months. PM me if you wanna talk.
I also was so against abortion, but did what was right for myself & family.