Reply
Had my 10/10/10 baby! Brighton, ca, United States 1144 posts
22nd Dec '12

Tell your hubby in the morning. If you tell him now it could get ugly.

AngelGabriel'sMama 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 2103 posts
22nd Dec '12

I would definitely tell. Too many things can go wrong if you hide it.

user banned Due July 3; 2 kids; Australia 14351 posts
22nd Dec '12

Yes tell him. Drinking is no excuse to assault a woman!

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
22nd Dec '12

I would definitely tell your husband. It would be alot worse down the road if you didn't say anything and his friend said something later on and accused you of wanting it or who knows what.

Doodles mommy Due July 31; 2 kids; Starke, Florida 1641 posts
22nd Dec '12

Yeah I will defanitly be waiting until hes sober. I just dont even understand what he was thinking....

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
22nd Dec '12

Don't wait. That happened to me about a year ago and I didn't tell DH till 5 or 6 months later. It made it worse.

Legendary Yo Mama Due January 31 (boy); 12 kids; 724 posts
22nd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting A&J. ♥:</b>" If it was a drunken kiss I might not But a crotch grab? f**k that Tell your husband"</blockquote>




Absolutely! The kiss was kinda funny, but the crotch grab crossed every line known to mankind.

Tarynosaurus Rex San Antonio, Texas 1271 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Doodles mommy:" So my husband is over at the neighbors house and they are all drinking.. I am sitting here at the house ... [snip!] ... so as not to ruin the friendship? I mean he probably wont remember it tomorrow...? I just dont know what I should do.... HELP!!"


Being drunk isn't an excuse to act like that. Tell him right away cuz you never know how this guy might decide to spin the story to make it look like you came onto him.

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21543 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Stl mama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A&J. ♥:</b>" If it was a drunken kiss I might not But ... [snip!] ... husband"</blockquote> Absolutely! The kiss was kinda funny, but the crotch grab crossed every line known to mankind."


No, even the kiss was out of line. He knew she is not single.

chelseacate Due April 30 (boy); 2 kids; Cisco, Texas 83 posts
22nd Dec '12

Oh my lanta I would have knocked the shit.out of him !!! Tell your hubby and his wife , later on it will ruin a friendship between you in the wife possibly and hubby well .... Just tell him .

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49462 posts
22nd Dec '12

If it would have stopped at the kiss, I would have said dont tell him, but the crotch grab was over the line and I would definitely be telling him.

Doodles mommy Due July 31; 2 kids; Starke, Florida 1641 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Michael Westen:" Don't wait. That happened to me about a year ago and I didn't tell DH till 5 or 6 months later. It made it worse."


Its going to be ugly enough, I dont want to wait and make it worse.. Honestly I hadnt though about the fact that he could spin it around...

Tarynosaurus Rex San Antonio, Texas 1271 posts
22nd Dec '12
Quoting Minion:" No, even the kiss was out of line. He knew she is not single."


This. Kissing someone against their will is sexual assault.

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11238 posts
22nd Dec '12

I would definitely tell him tomorrow. It's better you tell him anyways in case his friend decides to let it come out.

Legendary Yo Mama Due January 31 (boy); 12 kids; 724 posts
22nd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tarynosaurus Rex:</b>" This. Kissing someone against their will is sexual assault."</blockquote>




Take that one to court :)