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mjt♥ Miles Joseph ♡ 1 child; 2 angel babies; Elizabeth, WV, United States 6124 posts
23rd Dec '12

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IDID-VBAC 12/09 2 kids; Alaska 44106 posts
23rd Dec '12

Christmas is still 2 days away, how do you know he doesnt have something put away for you?

regina_margot 2 kids; New York, New York 1543 posts
23rd Dec '12

i didn't get anything at all.
my SO has a huge family, he's one of 6. so, as you can imagine, there are QUITE a few nieces / nephews / cousins / brothers / sisters
i think all the nephews and nieces got something, i didn't get jack shit
he makes really beautiful graphic art, so i asked him to make me a piece, at a cost of $0.0
did i get that? nope.

Logan and Noah's Momma 18 kids; North Carolina 982 posts
23rd Dec '12

I'd be insulted and hurt as well..

Miles Joseph ♡ 1 child; 2 angel babies; Elizabeth, WV, United States 6124 posts
23rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting IDID-VBAC 12/09:</b>" Christmas is still 2 days away, how do you know he doesnt have something put away for you? "</blockquote>



Because i've been with him when he went shopping.

Miles Joseph ♡ 1 child; 2 angel babies; Elizabeth, WV, United States 6124 posts
23rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting regina_margot:</b>" i didn't get anything at all. my SO has a huge family, he's one of 6. so, as you can imagine, there are ... [snip!] ... jack shit he makes really beautiful graphic art, so i asked him to make me a piece, at a cost of $0.0 did i get that? nope."</blockquote>




Awh .. :(

Kaibutsu 1 child; Virginia 3525 posts
23rd Dec '12

Yeah that seems odd to me. My SO isn't going to get me anything this year, either for Christmas. I told him I'd give him my 50 from my mom and he could combine it with his 50 to make 100 and he didn't reject it. My dad always gets me something nice and SO wasn't going to get anything from family so I gave him my 50 from my mom.

Mom of 2 Monkeys 2 kids; St. Louis, Michigan 18161 posts
23rd Dec '12

i wouldn't be hurt til AFTER christmas... maybe he's holding something back to see how butthurt you get seeing you got something used and his family didn't, to see if you're a materialistic person? I wouldn't get hurt over it until AFTER the holidays

Mom of 2 Monkeys 2 kids; St. Louis, Michigan 18161 posts
23rd Dec '12
Quoting Venus Penis Trap.
Miss. Tiff Due November 20; 33 kids; Odessa, Missouri 2874 posts
23rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Venus Penis Trap.

IDID-VBAC 12/09 2 kids; Alaska 44106 posts
23rd Dec '12
Quoting Mom of 2 Monkeys:" whos to say he didn't go while at work? guys can be sneaky... not usually.. but they can be"


This is what my husband does. We do all of our shopping together but he finds a way to go without me to get me something.

Miles Joseph ♡ 1 child; 2 angel babies; Elizabeth, WV, United States 6124 posts
23rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom of 2 Monkeys:</b>" whos to say he didn't go while at work? guys can be sneaky... not usually.. but they can be"</blockquote>



If he left early from work his ass would be fired. They don't even let him off when DS has to go to the doctor.

Miles Joseph ♡ 1 child; 2 angel babies; Elizabeth, WV, United States 6124 posts
23rd Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom of 2 Monkeys:</b>" i wouldn't be hurt til AFTER christmas... maybe he's holding something back to see how butthurt you get ... [snip!] ... used and his family didn't, to see if you're a materialistic person? I wouldn't get hurt over it until AFTER the holidays"</blockquote>




I'm definitely not a materialistic person I haven't even said anything about it to him.

Lita ღ Kailey 1 child; North Dakota 4728 posts
23rd Dec '12
Quoting regina_margot:" i didn't get anything at all. my SO has a huge family, he's one of 6. so, as you can imagine, there are ... [snip!] ... jack shit he makes really beautiful graphic art, so i asked him to make me a piece, at a cost of $0.0 did i get that? nope."


:!:
We don't get each other anything for Christmas because we like to focus on our daughter and the kids in the family. It's not a huge deal to me, but if I was in the situation you were in I would be offended.

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7546 posts
status 23rd Dec '12

There's still time before Christmas feel hurt/mad after Christmas if he still didn't get you anything.