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mjt♥ Miles Joseph ♡ 1 child; 2 angel babies; Redneckville, WV, United States 5842 posts
24th Dec '12

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Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
24th Dec '12

Your boyfriend is a control issue, and he keeps exerting it because you keep allowing him to.



He plays video games all day long because he knows you can't and won't stop him.



He doesn't help you with your son but he expects you to take him to his parent's house.



He knows you won't do anything without him so he makes the plans HE WANTS.



Stop doing what he wants. He thinks he can control you because he pays the bills, and you let him think that by letting him control you.



Go an see your family tomorrow and tell him he can either come with you or do his own thing.

user banned 33 kids; Blytheville, Arkansas 7534 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting Red Bottom:" Your boyfriend is a control issue, and he keeps exerting it because you keep allowing him to. He plays ... [snip!] ... that by letting him control you. Go an see your family tomorrow and tell him he can either come with you or do his own thing. "


I'm assuming a lot of these are previously mentioned issues, but if they're true I agree whole-heartedly. Why does it matter what he does if your family hasn't spent much time with your son? Take him to see his family. If your SO doesn't want to come then he doesn't have to. Let him be an inconsiderate prick.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" I'm assuming a lot of these are previously mentioned issues, but if they're true I agree whole-heartedly. ... [snip!] ... son? Take him to see his family. If your SO doesn't want to come then he doesn't have to. Let him be an inconsiderate prick. "


I probably should've noted that, lol. Her and I were talking in another thread earlier. Thanks for understanding!

user banned 33 kids; Blytheville, Arkansas 7534 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting Red Bottom:" I probably should've noted that, lol. Her and I were talking in another thread earlier. Thanks for understanding!"


Context clues. :D

Miles Joseph ♡ 1 child; 2 angel babies; Redneckville, WV, United States 5842 posts
24th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Your boyfriend is a control issue, and he keeps exerting it because you keep allowing him to. He plays ... [snip!] ... that by letting him control you. Go an see your family tomorrow and tell him he can either come with you or do his own thing. "</blockquote>




I'm actually on my way there now. :D

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
24th Dec '12
Quoting Venus p***s Trap.
Ryleigh's Mama ♥ 17 kids; West Virginia 10703 posts
24th Dec '12

Take it from me, spend as much time with your family as you can & want to.. I wish I would have stood my ground a lot more in the past with ex's & holidays. I'd give anything to go back & spend every minute I could with my mom :(

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
24th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ryleigh's Mommy ♥:</b>" Take it from me, spend as much time with your family as you can & want to.. I wish I would have stood ... [snip!] ... a lot more in the past with ex's & holidays. I'd give anything to go back & spend every minute I could with my mom :("</blockquote>




Aww I'm sorry, I know how you feel. :( Today is 11 years since I lost my dad. And didn't have much time to fix problems. Sucks

Miles Joseph ♡ 1 child; 2 angel babies; Redneckville, WV, United States 5842 posts
25th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ryleigh's Mommy ♥:</b>" Take it from me, spend as much time with your family as you can & want to.. I wish I would have stood ... [snip!] ... a lot more in the past with ex's & holidays. I'd give anything to go back & spend every minute I could with my mom :("</blockquote>



Yeah .. I'm sorry girl. I love you. ♥

Ryleigh's Mama ♥ 17 kids; West Virginia 10703 posts
25th Dec '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ryleigh's Mommy ♥:</b>" Take it from me, spend as much ... [snip!] ... Aww I'm sorry, I know how you feel. :( Today is 11 years since I lost my dad. And didn't have much time to fix problems. Sucks"


It's hard :( My mom just passed 10 days ago. Already miss her so much. I could only imagine how much you miss your dad after 11 years.

Ryleigh's Mama ♥ 17 kids; West Virginia 10703 posts
25th Dec '12
Quoting Venus p***s Trap.
Miles Joseph ♡ 1 child; 2 angel babies; Redneckville, WV, United States 5842 posts
25th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ryleigh's Mommy ♥:</b>" Love you too <3 Merry Christmas to you guys!"</blockquote>




You too.♥