★Date311161.69 TTC since Sep 2012; 33 kids; Pennsylvania 4000 posts24th Dec '12
Quoting Cap'n Obvious:" I'm not sure about 'em either. I really need both to get off (well, I can with only c**t stim, but not ... [snip!] ... through all these and not really knowing what I need or what I'll like yet... I guess it's kind of trial and error..? hahah."
Even when DH and I have sex, I still need to use a bullet vib for c**t stimulation to get off. He turns me on like crazy in the bedroom, but just penetration doesn't do it for me... well, as in, gets me off. Sorry TMI! haha
Legendary Amanda 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 51760 posts24th Dec '12
Quoting Cap'n Obvious:" It's slowly getting better. And when we have/had sex in the past, he loved using toys on me, so maybe it'd be a push in the right direction? :? I don't know."
Can't hurt to try! My only advice is don't get anything that relies solely on batteries. It's like an unchangeable camera, when you need it the batteries are dead.
ETA: I see now that you wrote that in the OP, sorry! Tired.
Cap'n Obvious 65 kids; Benton, Kentucky 1330 posts24th Dec '12
Thanks, ladies! I'm gonna look at more and see what I want to try. Maybe I can get a few if they're cheap enough and just get ideas for down the road. :)