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killingbird 5evr 2 kids; 1 angel baby; North Carolina 10195 posts
status 29th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Juggernog-aholic:</b>" You could have used them all :wink: And this is one reason I'm glad my family doesn't know when I'm supposed to have my period :lol:"</blockquote>




My mom knows everything. I've never been able to keep a secret from her. Lol

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
29th Jan '13
Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" :( That will suck."


Yeah. Ever since having DS2, they make comments about how I have plenty of kids and that I don't need anymore. And if I even joked about having more later on they would be all "Um, no. You need to just be done having kids. Your body needs a break and we can't handle you being pregnant anymore."



I'm just really not looking forward to that.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
29th Jan '13
Quoting Killingℬird(6w):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Juggernog-aholic:</b>" You could have used them all :wink: ... [snip!] ... to have my period :lol:"</blockquote> My mom knows everything. I've never been able to keep a secret from her. Lol"


I can to an extent with mine. If I don't talk to her very much, it's easier to keep secrets from her lol

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53837 posts
29th Jan '13
Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" Yeah. Ever since having DS2, they make comments about how I have plenty of kids and that I don't need ... [snip!] ... kids. Your body needs a break and we can't handle you being pregnant anymore." I'm just really not looking forward to that."


Ewww tell them to mind their business!!! How annoying!!

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
29th Jan '13
Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Ewww tell them to mind their business!!! How annoying!!"


If it was anyone else, I would. But when it comes to my family, I have no spine and usually just say stuff like "Well, I'm not planning on it."



This baby wasn't planned. It's not like we were trying to get pregnant. Hell, my appointment last week was supposed to be for my pap so I could get my tubes tied. And then I found out about the baby. I'm just really not looking forward to what they are going to say. I told DH that when we do tell them, I want to do it all at once (like with a get together at our house) and tell them if they have any negative comments, the door is that way. I'm trying to get my spine before we tell them though lol

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53837 posts
29th Jan '13
Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" If it was anyone else, I would. But when it comes to my family, I have no spine and usually just say ... [snip!] ... tell them if they have any negative comments, the door is that way. I'm trying to get my spine before we tell them though lol"


It took me about 2 hours to talk myself up enough to stand up to my mom... only to not need it. Hmm...



Hopefully that will be the same for you.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
29th Jan '13
Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" It took me about 2 hours to talk myself up enough to stand up to my mom... only to not need it. Hmm... Hopefully that will be the same for you."


I'm glad you didn't need it!



My mom made comments when I was pregnant with EJ. And when I found out I was pregnant with him, I had gone to get birth control lol.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53837 posts
29th Jan '13
Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" I'm glad you didn't need it! My mom made comments when I was pregnant with EJ. And when I found out I was pregnant with him, I had gone to get birth control lol."


Gosh! Such bad luck you have hahaha

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
29th Jan '13
Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Gosh! Such bad luck you have hahaha"


Yeah.. pretty much lol. I should just not try to prevent pregnancy haha. When I'm not trying to, it doesn't happen :wink:



I'm getting my tubes tied the minute this one is out though. And I've told DH he is getting snipped sometime before it's born or he won't be touching me until he does lol.

killingbird 5evr 2 kids; 1 angel baby; North Carolina 10195 posts
status 29th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Juggernog-aholic:</b>" If it was anyone else, I would. But when it comes to my family, I have no spine and usually just say ... [snip!] ... tell them if they have any negative comments, the door is that way. I'm trying to get my spine before we tell them though lol"</blockquote>




With this being my 3rd csection I know I should probably get my tubes tied, but I really don't want to. :( and neither does hubby. But I'm so scared of getting pregnant too soon after this one and it becoming dangerous.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
29th Jan '13
Quoting Killingℬird(6w):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Juggernog-aholic:</b>" If it was anyone else, I would. But ... [snip!] ... want to. :( and neither does hubby. But I'm so scared of getting pregnant too soon after this one and it becoming dangerous."


This will be my 4th csection :( But when DS2 was born I was only 21 and I just couldn't get my tubes tied. I still wasn't sure that I didn't want anymore ever again.



But, after this one. I'm done. I was ready to be done before this one but things happen lol

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53837 posts
29th Jan '13
Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" Yeah.. pretty much lol. I should just not try to prevent pregnancy haha. When I'm not trying to, it ... [snip!] ... is out though. And I've told DH he is getting snipped sometime before it's born or he won't be touching me until he does lol."

Bahahaha. Good deal.

killingbird 5evr 2 kids; 1 angel baby; North Carolina 10195 posts
status 29th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Juggernog-aholic:</b>" This will be my 4th csection :( But when DS2 was born I was only 21 and I just couldn't get my tubes ... [snip!] ... I didn't want anymore ever again. But, after this one. I'm done. I was ready to be done before this one but things happen lol"</blockquote>




I'll be 22 when this one is born. I feel like that's way too young to know if I want to stop. I had my heart set on three kids, but I don't want another after this one for at least 5-6 years. And me and hubby just can't seem to NOT get pregnant. He's too potent and I'm too fertile. :x lol



I'm still weighing the pros and cons.

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
29th Jan '13
Quoting Killingℬird(6w):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Juggernog-aholic:</b>" This will be my 4th csection :( But ... [snip!] ... hubby just can't seem to NOT get pregnant. He's too potent and I'm too fertile. :x lol I'm still weighing the pros and cons."


Lol that sounds like DH and I. I didn't want another one until DS2 was about to go into kindergarten. But, that didn't happen. I'll be 23 in May and I know I don't want anymore than 4 kids so I'm ready to be done after this one.

user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
29th Jan '13

Oh my god I feel like my insides are being slowly ripped out. I don't remember agreeing to this :x :cry: