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The Bear and The Bird 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42574 posts
27th Dec '12
Quoting ♥ darah ♥:" eh I have my issues but do see where the term comes from. birth is a sexual experience and being taken advantage of or not being in control is traumatizing for some women just as rape can be."


I think there's something deeply psychologically wrong with you if you think giving birth is a sexual experience.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
27th Dec '12
Quoting ♥ darah ♥:" eh I have my issues but do see where the term comes from. birth is a sexual experience and being taken advantage of or not being in control is traumatizing for some women just as rape can be."


Since when is birth a sexual experience?

~The Lunar Flower~ Due January 13; 1 child; Alabama 6738 posts
27th Dec '12

This should have trigger in the title...just saying. I've actually been raped so the term birth rape is slightly offensive. My birth plan also didn't go as planned but it was nowhere near the mental pain of an actual rape

user banned Colorado 21030 posts
27th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Marlee*TTC*:</b>" I can't either. That's why I am wondering how thaws women can call rape when it really isn't legally rape."</blockquote>




not in legal term. but when you are put under without consenting.. then given a cesarean without consenting (which does happen).. it's pretty shifty. very unacceptable and I can see the association with rape.. except those women are rarely given justice.

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
27th Dec '12

The word rape doesn't just mean forced intercourse though, it can also mean violent abuse or violation. For example, "The rape of justice." I think that's where the term comes from.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
27th Dec '12

I have never heard that term and I hope I never do (outside of here). What a horrible way to describe a birth.

It's so Fluffayy! Due March 17; 19 kids; Texas 4279 posts
27th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" The title clearly states that the subject is about rape. A trigger warning is not necessary."</blockquote>




In a graphic post I think it would be wise, I said maybe geesh...

The Bear and The Bird 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42574 posts
27th Dec '12
Quoting ♥ darah ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Marlee*TTC*:</b>" I can't either. That's why I am wondering ... [snip!] ... it's pretty shifty. very unacceptable and I can see the association with rape.. except those women are rarely given justice."


/snort. Since when are the majority of real rape victims given justice? It's a hell of a lot easier to sue for malpractice than it is to get your rapist put in jail.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 21572 posts
status 27th Dec '12

OP thank you for putting a trigger on the title.

The Bear and The Bird 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42574 posts
27th Dec '12
Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" The title clearly states that ... [snip!] ... A trigger warning is not necessary."</blockquote> In a graphic post I think it would be wise, I said maybe geesh..."

And I merely stated the rules of the forum and didn't give you attitude, so you can kindly cut yours the f**k out, thanks.

Walking in Memphis 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Macon, Georgia 5936 posts
27th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kari Corrupted:</b>" I agree. 'Rape' is a sexual violation, not a birth plan that didn't get followed!"</blockquote>




!!!

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
27th Dec '12
Quoting :)Amanda(::" This should have trigger in the title...just saying. I've actually been raped so the term birth rape ... [snip!] ... rape is slightly offensive. My birth plan also didn't go as planned but it was nowhere near the mental pain of an actual rape"


What would make you think it isn't a trigger in the first place? :roll:

It's so Fluffayy! Due March 17; 19 kids; Texas 4279 posts
27th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HopingforaMiracle:</b>" OP thank you for putting a trigger on the title."</blockquote>



! Yes ty op

Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
27th Dec '12
Quoting ♥ darah ♥:" eh I have my issues but do see where the term comes from. birth is a sexual experience and being taken advantage of or not being in control is traumatizing for some women just as rape can be."


How the f**k do you get that birth is a sexual experience?



The only sexual thing about it, is that sexual organs are used....which, if that's how you get that it's a sexual experience, so is breastfeeding. And don't even get me started on how fucked it is to see THAT as sexual.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
27th Dec '12
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" The title clearly states that the subject is about rape. A trigger warning is not necessary."


Shame on you for reading the obvious!