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Emily Cobb-Minson 20 kids; Yazoo City, Mississippi 15 posts
27th Dec '12

what about if he's the one who doesn't want to everynight. i have a high sex drive compared to him.

Sofia's Mummy♥ 1 child; United Kingdom 7331 posts
27th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Emily Cobb-Minson:</b>" what about if he's the one who doesn't want to everynight. i have a high sex drive compared to him."</blockquote>




In that case, do YOU get annoyed if you don't do it every night, and how does his lack of drive affect you/your emotions?

Cecily's Mama 1 child; 3778 posts
27th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super k******r:</b>" He only wants sex when he's drunk but he DOES get mad if I say no so I do it anyway, even though I don't want to."</blockquote>




This. But DH has stopped drinking (almost two months now) so we've only had sex once for a total of 7 minutes!

624582 Neilton, Washington 9312 posts
27th Dec '12

In the 5 years that DH and I have been together he has never moped, whined, or bitched about not having sex. I have a higher sex drive than DH, though. But, even when he has tried to initiate sex and I've asked him to wait he does. He will test the waters, try to turn me on playfully, and if my final answer is no he will go on about his day. My husband rarely complains or shows anger about anything.

EnnaBennaBanana 2 kids; Maryland 6168 posts
27th Dec '12
Quoting Sofia's Mummy♥:" *please don't quote* Get pissy when you don't have sex every night?"


No. I usually am always up for it.. but during pregnancy it's more off and on, and he has been very supportive and understanding.

.:Stacy Renee:. 19 kids; Ohio 6509 posts
27th Dec '12

He doesn't get the chance to get mad because I never say no.



I'm the one who pouts.

LittleTiger Due July 25; TTC since Oct 2013; 1 child; Florida 8728 posts
27th Dec '12

My libido goes through phases. Sometimes I never want it and other times I exhaust him out. lol. He doesnt complain when my libido is low usually. It takes a long stretch of time for him to start getting frustrated. I can definitely sense him getting distant though when I'm low. He isnt as lovey dovey.

Emily Cobb-Minson 20 kids; Yazoo City, Mississippi 15 posts
27th Dec '12

@sofia's mommy-------yeah i get very upset if he doesn't want to. it affects my emotions by making me more tense and in a bitchy mood if i don'tt get my release so to say.

EnnaBennaBanana 2 kids; Maryland 6168 posts
27th Dec '12
Quoting Emily Cobb-Minson:" what about if he's the one who doesn't want to everynight. i have a high sex drive compared to him."


My husband usually makes the first move for sex, but if I do (and I have) he never turns it down. However... I wouldn't be upset if he did now and then unless it was something that was happening alot, or if it was a really special night for us I had planned, then I would probably be hurt.

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11958 posts
27th Dec '12

no, but I've been with guys who did. Pain in teh ass

Miss. Tiff Due November 20; 33 kids; Odessa, Missouri 2874 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting LittleTiger:</b>" My libido goes through phases. Sometimes I never want it and other times I exhaust him out. lol. He doesnt ... [snip!] ... for him to start getting frustrated. I can definitely sense him getting distant though when I'm low. He isnt as lovey dovey."</blockquote>




I can also tell with out sex for enough he gets distant &
less Kissy & lovey.we also seem tofight more. He's a horny freak seriously Idk howmany times a day HE'd do it if he had a say each time.

Rebekah Garden x3 Due October 5; 33 kids; Fall River, Massachusetts 5223 posts
30th Dec '12

'nope.
im the one that gets pissy. lol

Emily Cobb-Minson 20 kids; Yazoo City, Mississippi 15 posts
30th Dec '12
Quoting Sofia's Mummy♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Emily Cobb-Minson:</b>" what about if he's the one who doesn't ... [snip!] ... In that case, do YOU get annoyed if you don't do it every night, and how does his lack of drive affect you/your emotions?"


@sofia's mommy-------yeah i get very upset if he doesn't want to. it affects my emotions by making me more tense and in a bitchy mood if i don'tt get my release so to say

Suck my PENIS 17 kids; Florida 40538 posts
31st Dec '12

No. He understands my kitten needs to rest sometimes




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