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I said I'd never be this girl... Chick+6.5! Due October 18; 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Colorado 7766 posts
27th Dec '12

And as of 2 nights ago, I am. :( I told dh "no" when he tried to get intimate. I don't want to have sex anymore. Period. I know part of it could be hormones, depression, insecurity... Dh rarely wants to have sex. He has never had a high libido, even when we were dating. So I try to be there for him when he actually tries. Lately though, I just don't care. It's upsetting me and I can tell it hurt his feelings. Truth be told I don't want him to touch me most days. Wtf is wrong with me?! :cry:

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
27th Dec '12

I think it could be possible you're just tired from every day to day life. With working and having six kids, it can't be the most easy thing. Also, maybe you're a little secretly worried about getting pregnant again since you said he won't get a vasectomy and you can't take BC. ??? Maybe.

Mason'sMommy; 1 child; Welland, Ontario 1233 posts
27th Dec '12

I haven't clicked your profile, to lazy :P
But are you pregnant?
If so I was the exact same way.



When I was pregnant SO always wanted to be intimate.
Now, I'm not pregnant and I have to bed him.
And even after I beg most of the time it's no.

CRSx2Mommy 18 kids; North Carolina 3475 posts
27th Dec '12

when you find out let me know bc i'm in the same boat. My husband is my world and i'm so in love with him it's stupid. I haven't had sex with him in over two weeks. bless his patient heart. now I have a stomach virus so add another couple days to that. I am going to talk to my doc after I have this kid about female libido help bc it's been going on for a couple years now.

Danu ♥ 3 Due September 10; 1 child; Phx, Az, United States 5643 posts
27th Dec '12

I get like this from time to time, where I just don't want anything to do with DH in that area. We've gone weeks with out sex because I simply just don't care to do it. It could be anything from stress of life to just not feeling that connection in that area anymore.

Chick+6.5! Due October 18; 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Colorado 7766 posts
27th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:</b>" I think it could be possible you're just tired from every day to day life. With working and having six ... [snip!] ... secretly worried about getting pregnant again since you said he won't get a vasectomy and you can't take BC. ??? Maybe."</blockquote>




Honestly, I could be wide awake and still not want it. And, crazy as it sounds, secretly I wouldn't mind getting pregnant some days. Only because if I did I would HAVE to stay home and wouldn't be spread as thin.

Chick+6.5! Due October 18; 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Colorado 7766 posts
27th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mason'sMommy;:</b>" I haven't clicked your profile, to lazy :P But are you pregnant? If so I was the exact same way. When ... [snip!] ... SO always wanted to be intimate. Now, I'm not pregnant and I have to bed him. And even after I beg most of the time it's no."</blockquote>




Nope.

Chick+6.5! Due October 18; 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Colorado 7766 posts
27th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting CRSx2Mommy:</b>" when you find out let me know bc i'm in the same boat. My husband is my world and i'm so in love with ... [snip!] ... I am going to talk to my doc after I have this kid about female libido help bc it's been going on for a couple years now. "</blockquote>




We can go a month...

SubLowe 1 child; Oceanside, California 15387 posts
27th Dec '12

i was like that for years! about 3 years to be exact. looking back i think it was just insecurity and stress and more insecurity. Everything changed once i dreaded my hair .. lmao .. pretty much though, around the time i dreaded my hair i felt like i was back in my shoes and started loving and appreciating myself so much more then ever before.

Chick+6.5! Due October 18; 6 kids; 1 angel baby; Colorado 7766 posts
27th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting OneLoveMama:</b>" i was like that for years! about 3 years to be exact. looking back i think it was just insecurity and ... [snip!] ... i dreaded my hair i felt like i was back in my shoes and started loving and appreciating myself so much more then ever before."</blockquote>




I wish I could be secure, :(