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user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
28th Dec '12

I don't LOVE it. But he enjoys getting them and I like making him happy so I'm okay with doing it.
He gets BJ's a lot because sometimes I'm too tired for sex.

Mama Bird [+2] ♥ 2 kids; Michigan 2647 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting MAIKENTRA:" WHATTTTTTTTT no one likes having their SO go down on them? Or am I missing something here? Cuz I think it's f**king amazing. "



ME TOO GIRL

Momma Rawks 1 child; Iowa 7174 posts
28th Dec '12

I like giving them. I pretty much go down on him every time we're intimate (unless it's a quickie). We both really like giving and receiving a lot.

Mommy to 3 boys & 1 girl 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Sidney, Ohio 7765 posts
28th Dec '12

I don't like giving them but I do it anyways. I love how my SO reacts to them. With me having TMJ (jaw issues) I don't do it for very long.

kr.r 1 child; Dallas, TX, United States 8737 posts
28th Dec '12

Shit. I feel bad for our men. I didn't know this many women hated blowing.

Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14277 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting kr.r:" Shit. I feel bad for our men. I didn't know this many women hated blowing."


Lol :P

Had my 10/10/10 baby! Brighton, ca, United States 1144 posts
28th Dec '12

I have to show this to SO. I do it every time we have sex...

MAIKENTRA 1 child; Maine 6552 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting kr.r:" Shit. I feel bad for our men. I didn't know this many women hated blowing."


Hahahahaha, I know! I mean, I don't mind it, but I wouldn't downright refuse to do it. I feel like eating p***y is just as uncomfortable...so he deserves reciprocation.

IDID-VBAC 12/09 2 kids; Alaska 44106 posts
28th Dec '12

I love my husband but that crosses my comfort line. Then again I have some issues from when I was younger so that may be a cause of not being comfortable with it. He has known from the beginning that it will never happen.

Mom2William&Michael 2 kids; 1 angel baby; New York 7600 posts
28th Dec '12

Bleck. I hate giving them and try not to think about what I'm doing when I do. But he likes them and I like making him happy, so I'll do it sometimes. Honestly, it's the c*****g part that I hate, so I don't have such a problem including a little in foreplay.

Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14277 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting IDID-VBAC 12/09:" I love my husband but that crosses my comfort line. Then again I have some issues from when I was younger ... [snip!] ... younger so that may be a cause of not being comfortable with it. He has known from the beginning that it will never happen. "


Is he okay with it?
My SO knows i am not okay with it and he doesn't really mind.

Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14277 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting :" J <3 Charlotte, " i like him going down on me hahaha. i just do not do blow jobs. bleh lol" I am ... [snip!] ... be nice and give him a blow job once in a while but I am not too fond of giving blow-jobs... Idk, maybe I'm weird.... . lol "


If you're weird, I'm weird :D

IDID-VBAC 12/09 2 kids; Alaska 44106 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting J ♥ Charlotte:" Is he okay with it? My SO knows i am not okay with it and he doesn't really mind."


If he isnt ok with it he hasnt said anything in over 5 years. I was upfront and honest with him about my past before we ever had sex or were intimate and it would be emotionally scarring to me if he decided now that he wasnt ok with it.

Charlotte & Gabe 2 kids; California 14277 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting IDID-VBAC 12/09:" If he isnt ok with it he hasnt said anything in over 5 years. I was upfront and honest with him about ... [snip!] ... about my past before we ever had sex and it would be emotionally scarring to me if he decided now that he wasnt ok with it. "


Ah okay.

kr.r 1 child; Dallas, TX, United States 8737 posts
28th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MAIKENTRA:</b>" Hahahahaha, I know! I mean, I don't mind it, but I wouldn't downright refuse to do it. I feel like eating p***y is just as uncomfortable...so he deserves reciprocation. "</blockquote>




Exactly! Plus I just really enjoy feeling in control of his pleasure like that, y'know? It's both a gift to him and to me.