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Mama Bird [+2] ♥ 2 kids; Michigan 2647 posts
28th Dec '12

SO will be getting one when he gets off work fersure! ;D

Rebel♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indian Rocks Beach, FL, United States 4998 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Coffee Milk:" holy smokes. I didnt realize how many people hate giving BJ's. I hate the c*m to, but we just have a ... [snip!] ... we just have a deal, he pulls my head off so it doesnt get in my mouth. one big cummy sloppy kiss, and its fool proof ladies"


my SO still kisses me after i give him head. lol and i swallow. c*m really doesnt bother me. my SO doesnt taste that bad at all. iv dated people that i wouldnt give them head at all because they tasted so bad. im glad my SO doesnt taste bad. that would make me sad. i love giving him head too much lol he makes all these sexy ass noises. lol

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
28th Dec '12

I love giving bjs, but DH doesn't like them too much. He says I do it great and it feels good, but its just not one of his things.

Coffee Milk 2 kids; Alaska 2089 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting →Ebahϖ:" my SO still kisses me after i give him head. lol and i swallow. c*m really doesnt bother me. my SO ... [snip!] ... my SO doesnt taste bad. that would make me sad. i love giving him head too much lol he makes all these sexy ass noises. lol"


I didnt swallow before I kissed him, lol he hasnt forgot to not c*m in my mouth since, baha

Rebel♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indian Rocks Beach, FL, United States 4998 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Coffee Milk:" I didnt swallow before I kissed him, lol he hasnt forgot to not c*m in my mouth since, baha"


LMAO oh boy. i dont think SO would let me give him head if i did that to him lmao

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Who gives a shit if you enjoy it or not? It's about making your mate feel good, and not your personal enjoyment in this situation."


I think that's a bad way to think about it. Sure, its good to do something for your SO or whatever, but there are some people that have had problems or traumatic experiences dealing with bjs. Especially if the male was too pushy. Chances are, if you aren't enjoying it, neither will he. My DH would rather I would enjoy myself while doing it and be relaxed than hating every second and not putting any real effort into it and making it a bad experience.

Rebel♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indian Rocks Beach, FL, United States 4998 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" I think that's a bad way to think about it. Sure, its good to do something for your SO or whatever, ... [snip!] ... while doing it and be relaxed than hating every second and not putting any real effort into it and making it a bad experience. "


ug i hate pushy people!!! im the type of person if im giving you head then IM DOING IT! its not you f**king my mouth its me giving you head. SO learned real quick i dont like him doing anything. for the most part i dont even like him touching my head at all if im giving him head. hair pulling it ok as long as hes not pushing my head at all.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting →Ebahϖ:" ug i hate pushy people!!! im the type of person if im giving you head then IM DOING IT! its not you ... [snip!] ... dont even like him touching my head at all if im giving him head. hair pulling it ok as long as hes not pushing my head at all."


Thankfully DH isn't pushy. Before I met DH, I use to tell guys, "If you start taking control of my mouth, I will bite down." I enjoy giving bjs, but at my own pace. It should be enjoyable for both parties. No one should feel trapped or pushed into doing it. Its intimate, and in my personal opinion, its about trust.

Amy♥NOAH♥Pook Due June 11; TTC since Feb 2012; 1 child; Arizona 14399 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Mommy to 3 boys & 1 girl:" I don't like giving them but I do it anyways. I love how my SO reacts to them. With me having TMJ (jaw issues) I don't do it for very long."

Yay I found someone else who has TMJ, lol. I have it as well so I can't do a BJ for toooo long, sometimes I hate doing it because then it makes my jaw super stiff. Sometimes I really get into and enjoy it though. Lol I seriously take an IBU profen beforehand if I know I'm going to give a bj to DH, haha

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
28th Dec '12

I love giving SO head, he gets so hard and horny mmmm. Lol I give him head all the time, whether we're home or out

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
28th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MAIKENTRA:</b>" WHATTTTTTTTT no one likes having their SO go down on them? Or am I missing something here? Cuz I think it's f**king amazing. "</blockquote>




Right!!! Mine loves him some p***y, 69 all day if we could

Mami to a princess Due June 7; 1 child; Miami, Florida 293 posts
28th Dec '12

i LOVE receiving he does it soooo good ugh ^_^ giving i like it not love but i do like it..i like to please him

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 4474 posts
status 28th Dec '12

I really enjoy giving DH them. I actually get really turned on just giving and I prefer it to receiving, I don't know why :? lol I think it's a really loving thing and shows how comfortable a man is with you because far from it being a dominant male behaviour I think it is actually quite a submissive move. To allow the person you love to be in complete control of your most intimate area.... Maybe I'm romanticising the BJ too much ha

xyxy 2 kids; 4 angel babies; ldn, uk, United Kingdom 160 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" I think that's a bad way to think about it. Sure, its good to do something for your SO or whatever, ... [snip!] ... while doing it and be relaxed than hating every second and not putting any real effort into it and making it a bad experience. "


agree with this, think of it the other way around- if you found out your SO absolutely hated going down on you could you still enjoy it? would you still let him do it? if i was in that situation i would not be able to enjoy it and i could not let him do it!



if it's a case of you don't get off on it yourself over doing it (as some women on here clearly do! :) ) but you don't mind doing it to please him, then no problem with that. but if it's something you really, really HATE, then... who cares, well- HE should!! you shouldnt expect your soulmate to suffer at your pleasure, it's disrespectful

Coffee Milk 2 kids; Alaska 2089 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting xTJ:" I really enjoy giving DH them. I actually get really turned on just giving and I prefer it to receiving, ... [snip!] ... allow the person you love to be in complete control of your most intimate area.... Maybe I'm romanticising the BJ too much ha"


lol, I like the way you think!