<blockquote><b>Quoting Dallas ♥ Isla:</b>" how in the world is this accomplished? i have tried and failed so hard"</blockquote>
It is so hard! I could only do it with the hospital grade pumps that once you start they just stay stuck on the breast. I rented one from a place connected to my hospital for a few months till I stopped needing to supplement. Otherwise I had no luck unless someone was willing to lend me their hands during a feeding. If my mom was around or dh was home they did.