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Scared A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
28th Dec '12

My LO recently has been doing outrageous things.
The other night he was about to get into the bathtub but went and rubbed his crotch against the bed laughing and saying "I wanna have sex"
I was like WHAT did you just say?!? And he kept laughing and saying he wanted to marry different ones of my friends because "they're hott"



Like what the f**k? I never talk about sex in front of him EVER. Nor is there anything "sexy" for him to witness. I am single and have had sex in a year.



Also today at my parents he went into my dads drawer and got a cigarette and a lighter out and had the cigarette in his mouth attempting to light it. Of course I flipped out.



I'm scared I'm going to be a grandmom at 30 or something crazy.

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
28th Dec '12

Who is he around and what does he watch on tv? How old is he?

None ya ;) 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10809 posts
28th Dec '12

I'd be more concerned about where he is learning about sex and how to mimic those actions!

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 8370 posts
status 28th Dec '12

How old is he and someone he's around probably talks about stuff like that. Sit down and talk to him about it...

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
28th Dec '12

How.old? Who does he spend time with and is TV monitor on what is watched?

Novelidea 2 kids; Louisiana 1217 posts
28th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting None ya ;):</b>" I'd be more concerned about where he is learning about sex and how to mimic those actions!"</blockquote>



:!: O.O

A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
28th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" Who is he around and what does he watch on tv? How old is he?"</blockquote>




He goes to preschool but its at my church and very strict. He is around my parents when I'm not home, they watch him while I work. I have two brothers 18 and 15.
In regards to tv he likes scooby doo, rugrats, the regular show, adventure time, Charlie Brown etc. he is 4

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
28th Dec '12

He's clearly heard /seen these things somewhere. I'd be investigating that.

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
28th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting A&J. ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" Who is he around and what does he watch on ... [snip!] ... brothers 18 and 15. In regards to tv he likes scooby doo, rugrats, the regular show, adventure time, Charlie Brown etc. he is 4"</blockquote>



Would your brothers teach him anything? That's very scary :S maybe look into play therapy to see what this is stemming from.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting A&J. ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" Who is he around and what does he watch on ... [snip!] ... brothers 18 and 15. In regards to tv he likes scooby doo, rugrats, the regular show, adventure time, Charlie Brown etc. he is 4"

Maybe he is learning things from your brothers?

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
28th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting A&J. ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Would your brothers teach him anything? That's very scary :S maybe look into play therapy to see what this is stemming from."</blockquote>




I agree. Kids often repeat things, but that is a little more then just repeating things. I definitely would bring him to therapy play

A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
28th Dec '12

A few months ago I found out my brothers were watching family guy with him when I was at work. I was really pissed and they haven't done it since then. But that was like I said a few months ago.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
28th Dec '12

What seems like a red flag to me is that he associates the rubbing of his genitals, ie the pleasure from that with sex.
It's normal to enjoy the feeling. It's normal to pick up a word like sex from older kids or tv but its not normal to make that association.

A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
28th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" What seems like a red flag to me is that he associates the rubbing of his genitals, ie the pleasure from ... [snip!] ... to enjoy the feeling. It's normal to pick up a word like sex from older kids or tv but its not normal to make that association."</blockquote>



I was thinking the same thing.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" What seems like a red flag to me is that he associates the rubbing of his genitals, ie the pleasure from ... [snip!] ... to enjoy the feeling. It's normal to pick up a word like sex from older kids or tv but its not normal to make that association."


Yea, that sounds like a red flag to me too.