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HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22848 posts
28th Dec '12

Have you seen a Psychiatrist/Psychologist?

LumpySpacePrincess 2 kids; New Zealand 17060 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Have you gone to a psychologist? With mental issues involved that is where you need to go to straighten things out."


I can't afford a psychologist.

LumpySpacePrincess 2 kids; New Zealand 17060 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Amber; ღ:" Would he work out with you? Have you told him how hard it is for you when he buys junk food and brings it in the house?"


No he won't work out with me. He doesn't need to he can eat all that food and not gain weight cos he has a physically demanding job and gets his excercise that way.



And I have talked tohim. He just says "don't eat it then"

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting LumpySpacePrincess:" I can't afford a psychologist."


Ugh, that is tough situation. :( You need to keep talking to your doctor and pressing it until he listens because your view of yourself and of eating is very distorted.

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19247 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting LumpySpacePrincess:" No he won't work out with me. He doesn't need to he can eat all that food and not gain weight cos he ... [snip!] ... he has a physically demanding job and gets his excercise that way. And I have talked tohim. He just says "don't eat it then""


:? wow, what a douche. It's easier said than done.



I'm sorry mama that you're feeling this way. I really don't have much advice :(

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22848 posts
28th Dec '12

Are there any places you can go that are cheaper/on a sliding scale?

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21747 posts
28th Dec '12

If you have a county mental health facility, they usually do services on a sliding scale. I went to my county's for a while and I paid nothing. It was very helpful.

LumpySpacePrincess 2 kids; New Zealand 17060 posts
28th Dec '12

Well f**k this. SO came home, I had text him before and told him I am breaking down I need help.



I am crying when he comes in, he doesn't talk to me just straight away tries to take LO who is hugging me from me. (This is what he always does when I reach my limit, he just takes the kids and tells them to stay away from me cos I'm crazy). He then yells at LO who is crying because he is hungry and SO won't feed him. He then gets in my face and yells at me, throws a bottle at me and calls me a f**king psycho says that he has had a hard day and he should't have to come home and support me or do f**king anything that he doesn't want to do and I can go get fucked and I'm a c**t.



f**k this. I can't f**king handle this. I want to die. It is taking all my f**king strength not to slit my wrists right now and get it over with. f**k this. I have no support. If I call my mum and ask her for support it will all be my fault and she will make sure I know that. And she will make sure to remind me that my kids deserve a f**k load better than me.




Please don't quote me.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44070 posts
28th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting LumpySpacePrincess:</b>" No he won't work out with me. He doesn't need to he can eat all that food and not gain weight cos he ... [snip!] ... he has a physically demanding job and gets his excercise that way. And I have talked tohim. He just says "don't eat it then""</blockquote>



No matter how small he is healthy is healthy. He can be just as unhealthy with a fit body.

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19247 posts
28th Dec '12

Wowwww, your SO is a true dick. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this :cry: Is there anyone you can call? Your mom? Dad? Grandparents? Some other family member? Friends?!

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44070 posts
28th Dec '12

Sweetie you should not feel that way. You really need to look for a place that does a sliding scale or talk to your dr maybe about a med that can help. U shouldn't be considering any of the things u mentioned. I was feeling that way and had to get medication cause I was scaring myself.

Chibs 2 kids; Missouri 12146 posts
28th Dec '12

You need to leave him
He's a selfish a*****e and he's never going to be supportive of you

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
28th Dec '12

OP, it sounds like he has some anger issues. Don't blame yourself for that. You need to ask your doctor if there is anyone affordable you can see because these thoughts are not good and you NEED to see someone.

LumpySpacePrincess 2 kids; New Zealand 17060 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Amber; ღ:" Wowwww, your SO is a true dick. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this :cry: Is there anyone you can call? Your mom? Dad? Grandparents? Some other family member? Friends?!"


Nope. No one. If I call my mum, she will tell me how it is all my fault and that I need to give her my children cos I am a shit mother.



If I call SOs mum I will hear how it's all my fault and I need to give him my children cos he's a much better person than I am.



And I have no friends.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22848 posts
28th Dec '12

Can you call a suicide hotline? Can you call an ER and ask them what to do? This is very scary to me right now how you're talking