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gone.... 1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
28th Dec '12

thanks for the vent ladies.

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19247 posts
28th Dec '12

:cry: I don't get how someone who loves you could tell you to kill yourself. I'm sorry hun *hugs*

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
28th Dec '12

:( I'm so sorry.. He's a f**king dick. HE can go to hell. I think you need to get ahold of someone, anyone else that is important in your life and talk to them

Bogey Woman 2 kids; Fort Irwin, California 1892 posts
28th Dec '12

Do you have somewhere to go? He seems like a real winner :roll:

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Amber; ღ:" :cry: I don't get how someone who loves you could tell you to kill yourself. I'm sorry hun *hugs*"


He loves himself that is about it.

Mother of Hayward. 1 child; Illinois 2673 posts
28th Dec '12

Do you have anywhere else you and your LO could stay?
If so, I would pack and leave.
Nobody deserves to feel or be treated that way. :(

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19247 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" He loves himself that is about it."


You deserve better hun, nobody deserves to be told that type of shit. I'd be looking for a way out.

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Gir!:" :( I'm so sorry.. He's a f**king dick. HE can go to hell. I think you need to get ahold of someone, anyone else that is important in your life and talk to them"


My kids?... I don't have anyone else to talk to. If I call my mom she will just make it worse by telling me she never liked him and that she told me not to marry him and that I have to deal with it now.

A & T + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19247 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" My kids?... I don't have anyone else to talk to. If I call my mom she will just make it worse by telling ... [snip!] ... just make it worse by telling me she never liked him and that she told me not to marry him and that I have to deal with it now."


:( do you have any friends or other family members you could call on?

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Bogey Woman:" Do you have somewhere to go? He seems like a real winner :roll:"


No. I was living on my own but gave up my place to marry him. Now he won't even let me have access to the money because he it a controlling t**t.

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Amber; ღ:" :( do you have any friends or other family members you could call on?"


No. Not really.

Bogey Woman 2 kids; Fort Irwin, California 1892 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" No. I was living on my own but gave up my place to marry him. Now he won't even let me have access to the money because he it a controlling t**t."


I know it sucks to have to deal with the "I told you so's" from your mom, but wouldn't you rather deal with that than someone telling you to kill yourself?

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44070 posts
28th Dec '12

I'm so sorry mama. This makes me so sad for you :( how can he be so cruel? Especially as a catholic. My grandparents were catholic and made awful comments about my bio dad going to hell after he killed himself :(

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
28th Dec '12
Quoting Bogey Woman:" I know it sucks to have to deal with the "I told you so's" from your mom, but wouldn't you rather deal with that than someone telling you to kill yourself?"


that is all she would do though she wouldn't help me at all.