vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30918 posts
29th Dec '12

Maybe she.stepped away for a few. id rather leave my infant.crying.for a little than get.overwhelmed &.frustrated.

HUgabearrr Japan 426 posts
29th Dec '12

haha apparently there are a LOT of neglectful mothers on here defending themselves. COLIC my ass. colic is not a diagnosis. It just means excessive crying. and crying that escalates because the mother doesn't attend to it right away. My pediatrician told me this when i asked. and those are the typically low income families who later get investigated by social services.

Devil Duckie 3 kids; New York 48700 posts
29th Dec '12
Quoting HUgabearrr:" apparently...if it bothers you so much that you need to post..."


Upset now one agree's with you much?

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49251 posts
29th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" Like your neighbors are? :idea: also no, you're not free to look into someone else's house just because you can."</blockquote>




Aren't there laws against that that could make her the sex offender? LOL

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15213 posts
29th Dec '12
Quoting HUgabearrr:" apparently...if it bothers you so much that you need to post..."


Ohhh good one. Insult someone by saying they post too much...in your post. Makes sense. Keep going, you're awesome at making points.

The Bear and The Bird 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42577 posts
29th Dec '12
Quoting HUgabearrr:" haha apparently there are a LOT of neglectful mothers on here defending themselves. COLIC my ass. colic ... [snip!] ... told me this when i asked. and those are the typically low income families who later get investigated by social services."

Then your doctor is a moron... no wonder you picked that one :lol:

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15213 posts
29th Dec '12
Quoting HUgabearrr:" its a screen door...im free to do whatever i want in my own house. i dont need your dumbass telling me what to do"



But apparently she's not free to parent however she wants to in hers? Because you have a screen door and an active imagination?

Devil Duckie 3 kids; New York 48700 posts
29th Dec '12
Quoting HUgabearrr:" haha apparently there are a LOT of neglectful mothers on here defending themselves. COLIC my ass. colic ... [snip!] ... told me this when i asked. and those are the typically low income families who later get investigated by social services."


do you really REALLy think calling us neglectful is going to make us mad or hurt our feelings?



Sounds like your pedi is a biased ass who shouldn't have a license.

HUgabearrr Japan 426 posts
29th Dec '12
Quoting Devil Duckie:" maybe your husband should focus on doing his job instead. "


he is...i don't know about your culture but ours is to keep the family safe.

Silvia's Mama TTC since Jul 2013; 1 child; auburn, WA, United States 1217 posts
29th Dec '12
Quoting HUgabearrr:" haha apparently there are a LOT of neglectful mothers on here defending themselves. COLIC my ass. colic ... [snip!] ... told me this when i asked. and those are the typically low income families who later get investigated by social services."

wow ms. know it all please enlighten us with more information

Devil Duckie 3 kids; New York 48700 posts
29th Dec '12

ahhhhh this feels like the old BG. I've missed this.

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30918 posts
29th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HUgabearrr:</b>" haha apparently there are a LOT of neglectful mothers on here defending themselves. COLIC my ass. colic ... [snip!] ... told me this when i asked. and those are the typically low income families who later get investigated by social services."</blockquote>



None of my kids have had colic *knock on wood* & we've never left our kids.to cry in their crib...that being said..thats bullshit. my niece had.colic. my sister would walk around.the house for hours trying to soothe her. nothing helped, she eventually grew out.of.it.

Alissa McKeighan 3 kids; Vermont 368 posts
29th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HUgabearrr:</b>" colic?? fever?? you leave a NEWBORN baby to cry in the crib if he/she has any one of those?"</blockquote>



Yes. If you're frustrated, it's infinitely better to just walk away than it is to lose your temper with the baby.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49251 posts
29th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting HUgabearrr:</b>" haha apparently there are a LOT of neglectful mothers on here defending themselves. COLIC my ass. colic ... [snip!] ... told me this when i asked. and those are the typically low income families who later get investigated by social services."</blockquote>



Wow. I really have no words. My nephew had colic and I can assure you he was attended to immediately and frequently and it still didn't help. And CPS never investigated LOL.

Devil Duckie 3 kids; New York 48700 posts
29th Dec '12
Quoting HUgabearrr:" he is...i don't know about your culture but ours is to keep the family safe."


You aren't keeping anyone safe. Neither is your Bullshit doctor.