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desperate nxane Due January 20 (boy); Quezon City, Philippines 19 posts
30th Dec '12

i dont have anyone to talk to so i'll just share my feelings here. im desperate. 37 weeks pregnant now. no money for my upcoming medical expenses for my baby's delivery. dont have a single stuff for my baby. and now i literally dont have a single penny for food. how am i going to survive? how's my baby going to survive? i dont know. i know none of you can help me but i'd just like to share this.. with someone.. with anyone. because i cant talk to anyone. im hungry right now. and so is my baby. God please help us. please. im begging you :'(

ThatsAlotaNuts Australia 2359 posts
30th Dec '12

Maybe internet money could go towards other expenses?

nxane Due January 20 (boy); Quezon City, Philippines 19 posts
30th Dec '12

our internet have not been paid for 3 months now. pretty sure the provider will cut this anytime now.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
30th Dec '12

How do you not get medical insurance through the state if you're pregnant and that broke? You should start looking in to those services. You can also apply through local churches and women's groups for baby stuff and aiding with bills. People often give away baby things for free or very cheap on CL as well.

applelove 1 child; auburn, CA, United States 6529 posts
30th Dec '12

Where do you live? Do you have any type of government help that might help you till things get better? Have you thought about adoption?



Try not to worry to much and just work on a plan, things will get better

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
30th Dec '12

This isn't your first post about this.. I don't trust anyone asking for money and things like this.. I hope you are an honest individual, but if all you post is this then people will eventually just completely ignore you. Idk.. Just doesn't feel right to me

nxane Due January 20 (boy); Quezon City, Philippines 19 posts
30th Dec '12

i dont want to give my baby to anyone. i love him so much. that's not an option for me. there's no insurance here whatsoever. you know what guys, its ok. we'll i dont know.. we'll probably get through this or something. im just so sad right now. its killing me.

κατι 1 child; Memphis, Tennessee 3143 posts
30th Dec '12
Quoting Gir!:" This isn't your first post about this.. I don't trust anyone asking for money and things like this.. ... [snip!] ... but if all you post is this then people will eventually just completely ignore you. Idk.. Just doesn't feel right to me"


agreed.

user banned 2 kids; Vientiane, Lao People's Democratic Republic 17415 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" This isn't your first post about this.. I don't trust anyone asking for money and things like this.. ... [snip!] ... but if all you post is this then people will eventually just completely ignore you. Idk.. Just doesn't feel right to me"</blockquote>




There have been threads very similar to this in the past.



Op where is your wage going?

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting THE KATIE PRICE:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" This isn't your first post about this.. I don't trust ... [snip!] ... right to me"</blockquote> There have been threads very similar to this in the past. Op where is your wage going?"</blockquote>



I seen that in the post before this. It's shady as hell

user banned 2 kids; Vientiane, Lao People's Democratic Republic 17415 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" How do you not get medical insurance through the state if you're pregnant and that broke? You should ... [snip!] ... women's groups for baby stuff and aiding with bills. People often give away baby things for free or very cheap on CL as well."</blockquote>




Maybe it's very different in the Philippines?

user banned 2 kids; Vientiane, Lao People's Democratic Republic 17415 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting THE KATIE PRICE:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" ... [snip!] ... this in the past. Op where is your wage going?"</blockquote> I seen that in the post before this. It's shady as hell"</blockquote>




I don't even have any practical advice, I know nothing about the Philippines.




Op where is the father?

nxane Due January 20 (boy); Quezon City, Philippines 19 posts
30th Dec '12

you know what gir, its ok. im not expecting any help. i mean, who in their right mind would give money to a total stranger who merely posted a cry for help. i mean even if im in your situation i'd doubt the poster. i just posted this because.. i dont know.. i just want to let my feelings out. i dont have anyone i could talk to so posting anonymously online is my only way to release this. its better than crying alone. so there. dont worry, you guys need not help me. im sorry for posting this. i just thought i can share this here. so i'll just write in my diary or something. im really sorry you guys.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
30th Dec '12
Quoting THE KATIE PRICE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" How do you not get medical insurance ... [snip!] ... away baby things for free or very cheap on CL as well."</blockquote> Maybe it's very different in the Philippines?"

Yeah, I didn't realize she was in another country :( I usually don't pay attention to locations cause most people don't put their real ones.

user banned 2 kids; Vientiane, Lao People's Democratic Republic 17415 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting nxane:</b>" you know what gir, its ok. im not expecting any help. i mean, who in their right mind would give money ... [snip!] ... for posting this. i just thought i can share this here. so i'll just write in my diary or something. im really sorry you guys."</blockquote>




We can try and offer advice, but we don't know much about life in the Philippines.



Where is the father?