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Layla's Momma ♥ 17 kids; California 4457 posts
30th Dec '12

Sounds like a scam to get free money!



If you can't afford your kid give it up for adoption.

user banned California 36390 posts
30th Dec '12

Have you been seeing a doctor? Any problems? Why not try a homebirth?

nxane Due January 20 (boy); Quezon City, Philippines 19 posts
30th Dec '12

the father is here with me. he's not worried. doesnt want to talk about our problems. he said if i cry some more he'll just leave me. he dont want to be dragged by my emotions. but i told him i cannot not worry. im about to give birth anytime now. its our baby's life we're talking about. so i cant stop crying. mostly i just lock myself in so he wont see my crying. or i cry when he's asleep. so that'll make it every night. im so pathetic. sorry. should really stop sharing stuff like this. its so desperate.

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting nxane:</b>" you know what gir, its ok. im not expecting any help. i mean, who in their right mind would give money ... [snip!] ... for posting this. i just thought i can share this here. so i'll just write in my diary or something. im really sorry you guys."</blockquote>




That just sounds even better :roll: I'm getting guilt tripped.. It costs a few hundred American to give birth at a decent hospital, or for even less you can get a house call midwife. Sell the phone, computer, whatever you are using to be on here and that would help your financial situation a bit.

nxane Due January 20 (boy); Quezon City, Philippines 19 posts
30th Dec '12

sorry for the confusion. im not asking for any money. dont give money to strangers. i mean i totally agree things like these sounds like a scam. so just dont. but any advice or at least concern would highly be appreciated. just knowing there are people out there who would at least take some time to read and give some advice.



my baby's been kicking really hard so i guess he's ok. he's the love of my life and i want to give everything i can for him.

nxane Due January 20 (boy); Quezon City, Philippines 19 posts
30th Dec '12

im sorry gir. this will be my last post. sorry for even posting this. i'll just go
back to writing in my diary. at least i know if i write these things no one will call me a scammer.
im sorry you guys. i just thought i could talk to someone. sorry again. you will hear from me no more.

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30924 posts
30th Dec '12

Breastfeed your baby, use cloth diapers, dh is from the Philippines as well.



get a midwife to help deliver your baby.

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30924 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super k******r:</b>" Have you been seeing a doctor? Any problems? Why not try a homebirth?"</blockquote>



Prenatal care over there is really really expensive. & they don't have Medicaid..or government insurance like we do here.

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30924 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting nxane:</b>" im sorry gir. this will be my last post. sorry for even posting this. i'll just go back to writing in ... [snip!] ... will call me a scammer. im sorry you guys. i just thought i could talk to someone. sorry again. you will hear from me no more."</blockquote>



You can private message me if you need to talk.

blah 17 kids; Alabama 7639 posts
30th Dec '12

Food banks, grow a garden, trade a good or service for food, homebirth, breast-feed, go to churches, redcross, look online for donations, freecycle.org

Loretta West [+1] Due March 26; TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 6019 posts
status 30th Dec '12
Quoting nxane:" i dont want to give my baby to anyone. i love him so much. that's not an option for me. there's no insurance ... [snip!] ... what guys, its ok. we'll i dont know.. we'll probably get through this or something. im just so sad right now. its killing me."


So you'd rather keep your child and risk him being malnourised?
Come the f**k on. If you have no money for food, clothes, or a roof over your head you don't have children. It's not fair that that kid has to grow up underfed and miserable because you're selfish.

user banned 2 kids; Vientiane, Lao People's Democratic Republic 17415 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting i made a vagina.:</b>" Breastfeed your baby, use cloth diapers, dh is from the Philippines as well. get a midwife to help deliver your baby."</blockquote>




I'm really glad someone who knows the system came to help.

(*Melly*) 1 child; 2 angel babies; California 2245 posts
status 30th Dec '12

There was also another girl from the philippines, with a different username asking for help a couple of months ago. I think this is a scam....in her other topic she says she has 2 months to go and she posted that 9 days ago and now she

Gir! 2 kids; Ohio 7504 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting nxane:</b>" im sorry gir. this will be my last post. sorry for even posting this. i'll just go back to writing in ... [snip!] ... will call me a scammer. im sorry you guys. i just thought i could talk to someone. sorry again. you will hear from me no more."</blockquote>



Don't f**king target me :roll:
I'm not the only one with suspicions and I think it's for good reason

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30924 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lucas'Mama:</b>" So you'd rather keep your child and risk him being malnourised? Come the f**k on. If you have no money ... [snip!] ... your head you don't have children. It's not fair that that kid has to grow up underfed and miserable because you're selfish."</blockquote>




Even adoption places over there are beyond over crowded & kids aren't guaranteed food there either. the country is VERY VERY poor.