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I really HATE him. Ace of Bace 1 child; New Bern, North Carolina 1657 posts
30th Dec '12

This was a really long story, but I waited a few days to tell it so a lot of the details are gone so it will be short. I fucking hate my husband! He came home WASTED at 7:30 am (srarted drinking after work at 2:30) I was pissed so I was yelling at him. After awhile I walked away to feed the Baby. He comes in talking about of I leave him or take the baby he will kill me, my family yada yada... Kept tellingly how he will kill me and he knows people (which he does) if I leave with the baby. And I believe it. He put my head threw a cupboard door. Call the cops you say? Well this isn't the first time this has happened. Last time it was the bathroom wall and I DID call the cops... Idk what he told them but after it was said and done I WENT TO JAIL. He is friends with them all... Who know what else is going on... So I didn't dare call the cops cuz I didn't know what would happen... Maybe I go to jail again for being a victim. But an all reality I'm a prisoner in my own house.afyer he went to bed he woke up feeling incredibly bad and apologetic. I WILL NEVER FORGIVR HIM.
Sorry if this has a lot of typos and stuff. I'm on my phone.

Bettinas 2 kids; Australia 2204 posts
30th Dec '12

You need to move somewhere he DOESN'T know people. Get out now because you don't deserve that! Do your family know what he is like?!

hi puddin 4 kids; Lawrence, Kansas 2118 posts
30th Dec '12

Take baby and leave.

~Mommy2NuNu~ 17 kids; 福井市, Japan 1511 posts
30th Dec '12
Quoting **Kiddy Kat**:" This was a really long story, but I waited a few days to tell it so a lot of the details are gone so ... [snip!] ... feeling incredibly bad and apologetic. I WILL NEVER FORGIVR HIM. Sorry if this has a lot of typos and stuff. I'm on my phone."

omg thats horrible and scary im so sorry I would try and go some where like maybe a safe house

IOnlyMakeBoys (B.B.M) 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Texas 4754 posts
30th Dec '12

Take pictures to document what happened and leave and if that is the case that he has so many connects try leaving the state verses just the house wait till he goes to work pack as much as you can throw it in the car and leave and don't turn back.

Bettinas 2 kids; Australia 2204 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mylittleone's (B.B.M):</b>" Take pictures to document what happened and leave and if that is the case that he has so many connects ... [snip!] ... verses just the house wait till he goes to work pack as much as you can throw it in the car and leave and don't turn back."</blockquote>




He's also threatened her family though so what would they do :?

The Blissful Six 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Massachusetts 10260 posts
30th Dec '12

Can you get in touch with a women's shelter. You can't stay in a situation like that.

*WishingUponAStar* 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Lawton, Oklahoma 18442 posts
30th Dec '12

Yea move somewhere he doesnt know people. Get a big dog and a gun. Don't call the cops the next time he comes after you, shoot his ass!

IOnlyMakeBoys (B.B.M) 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Texas 4754 posts
30th Dec '12
Quoting Bettinas:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mylittleone's (B.B.M):</b>" Take pictures to document what happened ... [snip!] ... the car and leave and don't turn back."</blockquote> He's also threatened her family though so what would they do :?"



Let them know what is going on its most likely a scare tactic and he won

Mama Charli Due August 8; 6 kids; Texas 6387 posts
30th Dec '12

I would record what he is saying and get the hell out of there asap. That way, you have other proof of violence so they can't wait a few days for the scratches or bruises to heal

Bailey&Ashlin's Mum 2 kids; New Zealand 882 posts
30th Dec '12

:( I think you should try get out and take baby to, if he works leave when hes at work and go as far as you can. Let your family know, if you trust them whole heartedly to not say anything to him and they wouldnt. I hope things get better for you. No one deserves that!

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
30th Dec '12

That sounds terrifying. In all honesty, I would make a plan and soon.



These are the steps I would take: 1)pack a bag with sentimental stuff, like baby book, 10 diapers a pack of wipes a couple outfits for LO. A birth certificate. Pretend like appt or store shopping. Just errands you would typically do. Go straight to the court house, file for emergency custody. And then if you have family out of state or in a separate county hours away- head straight there. Everything material is replaceable. Your life and LO's life is absolutely not. Once you get away, warn your family his threats and call the cops in a different town so there is no way he has connections there.

Ace of Bace 1 child; New Bern, North Carolina 1657 posts
30th Dec '12

He is such a Phsyco. I have been plotting to run away for awhile. I'm in the military for 5 more months so I can't leave. I think I could hide somewhere that iv never talked about liking... But like someone said he threatened my family. I hate him. I wish he would commit suicide.

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
30th Dec '12
Quoting **Kiddy Kat**:" He is such a Phsyco. I have been plotting to run away for awhile. I'm in the military for 5 more months ... [snip!] ... that iv never talked about liking... But like someone said he threatened my family. I hate him. I wish he would commit suicide."


Go to your commander asap. If they don't do anything, go to the next person in line. Go all the way up to the Post CSM if you have to. If they don't do anything, CALL CID or JAG.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
30th Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Kiddy Kat**:</b>" He is such a Phsyco. I have been plotting to run away for awhile. I'm in the military for 5 more months ... [snip!] ... that iv never talked about liking... But like someone said he threatened my family. I hate him. I wish he would commit suicide."</blockquote>



Can you talk to his superiors?