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.............. C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
30th Dec '12

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The Pretty Poodle™ 1 child; Illinois 7341 posts
30th Dec '12

Thats shitty...I dont understand people who talk shit about a child's parent in front of them.

user banned California 36390 posts
30th Dec '12

Wow! I'd be pissed, that is NOT okay!

~Mommyof3girls1boy~ Due October 5 (boy); 3 kids; Ohio 2686 posts
30th Dec '12

I'd be putting my foot down! No way in hell someone is going to disgrace me in front of my children and get away with it!

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
30th Dec '12

They live about 4 hours from me and my daughter only typically sees them once or twice a year. They aren't really involved grandparents, more national holiday ones. I feel like if I say anything at all to them or my ex husband that it will make it worse.

Beth~N~Lizzie 1 child; Winter Haven, Florida 2755 posts
30th Dec '12

Yeah I'd be all over BD about that shit. I'd tell him if his mom can't anything nice, then she needs to not say anything at all. Or don't allow your daughter to go over there at all. Some states consider it abuse for bad mouthing the other parent in front of the child

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting ~Boo's Mom~:" Yeah I'd be all over BD about that shit. I'd tell him if his mom can't anything nice, then she needs ... [snip!] ... your daughter to go over there at all. Some states consider it abuse for bad mouthing the other parent in front of the child"


I plan on talking to him, I'm just dreading it though

mom2andrew&carter 18 kids; Leesburg, Florida 2159 posts
31st Dec '12

id be beyond pissed. I never say anything bad about my ex infront of my kids cause that is their dad and its not right just like i hope he has the same respect for me and doesnt say anything bad about me in front of them. I am lucky though cause i get along with my exes mom very well and were very close

C'sMom! 1 child; Minnesota 1263 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting mom2andrew&carter:" id be beyond pissed. I never say anything bad about my ex infront of my kids cause that is their dad ... [snip!] ... say anything bad about me in front of them. I am lucky though cause i get along with my exes mom very well and were very close"


My daughter has never heard one negative thing about me from my ex husband or from me about him. I don't think that he has any idea that his mother has done this. My only concern is that if I say something to him, and he says something to his mother, she will continue to say worse things about me and tell my daughter not to say anything. :-/ That is what my biggest fear is that they will try to start my daughter having "secrets" from me. Which, up till now, there are none and I don't want that to change.