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What's wrong, flat face? TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Texas 13678 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting Red Bottom:" Thinking is fun, but doing it gets something done. You can do nothing....but then you also have ... [snip!] ... continue to happen and you will continue to be unhappy. And if you move in with this guy, it will be even harder to get out. "

We used to live in an apartment together and then came his joblessness and work lessening my hours.. Then came not being able to afford rent anymore so my mom offered the extra room to us.. Yeah.. My mind keeps trying to tell me shit will be better when we move out but then I remember.. shit wasn't even that great when we were in the apartment.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15213 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting Raindancer:" We used to live in an apartment together and then came his joblessness and work lessening my hours.. ... [snip!] ... tell me shit will be better when we move out but then I remember.. shit wasn't even that great when we were in the apartment."


You can't get him to be financially mature when you're saving for an apartment...imagine if you actually had one, and he felt like he had the power because he controlled the bills.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
31st Dec '12

Be prepared for a shit storm if he comes home & his shits packed on him. You're gonna make matters worse before you make them better. That is even if you wanna try salvaging what you have. If not, then that's a perfect way of telling him to gtfo