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Am I being stupid? mommymedic 17 kids; Berea, Kentucky 242 posts
31st Dec '12

DH and I both work today so my mom is watching LO. A few times we have taken DD to my parents the night before work so we can get some sleep (we work 24 or 12 hr shifts). Well last night DH wanted to take her to my parents but I didn't. I miss her and want her home. He whined about it so I got up with her all night so he could sleep. When I finally laid down at 4am DH was snoring like crazy so I got up to go back to the couch. He woke up and stormed out when I told him why I was leaving. I told him to come back to bed that I probably wouldn't sleep anyway because we had to get up in an hour anyway. He completely ignored me and went to the couch anyway. Is it stupid that this hurt my feelings?

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22368 posts
31st Dec '12

I'm confused. You told him you were leaving? Your mad that he wouldn't come back to bed?

Soon 2B Mom of 2 2 kids; North Highlands, California 3785 posts
31st Dec '12

Nope sounds like you were trying to be nice, and he is being an asshat. I would definately tell him to cool his shit or he can stay up with the baby all day, and your going to bed.

mommymedic 17 kids; Berea, Kentucky 242 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blythe.:</b>" I'm confused. You told him you were leaving? Your mad that he wouldn't come back to bed?"</blockquote>




Not leaving, just going to the couch.

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting mommymedic:" DH and I both work today so my mom is watching LO. A few times we have taken DD to my parents the night ... [snip!] ... to get up in an hour anyway. He completely ignored me and went to the couch anyway. Is it stupid that this hurt my feelings?"


i don't understand. you were on the couch, so how did he storm out to the couch?.... i think it's all just miscommunication. you're both tired and cranky. idk.

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22368 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting mommymedic:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blythe.:</b>" I'm confused. You told him you were leaving? Your ... [snip!] ... him you were leaving? Your mad that he wouldn't come back to bed?"</blockquote> Not leaving, just going to the couch."


so what hurt your feelings?

mommymedic 17 kids; Berea, Kentucky 242 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" i don't understand. you were on the couch, so how did he storm out to the couch?.... i think it's all just miscommunication. you're both tired and cranky. idk. "</blockquote>




I was up on the couch with LO until she fell asleep, then I went to bed to lay down. DH started snoring so I couldn't sleep so I got up to go back to the couch, he jumped up and went out to the couch instead

mommymedic 17 kids; Berea, Kentucky 242 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Blythe.:</b>" so what hurt your feelings?"</blockquote>




The fact that he ignored me and stormed off when I was just trying to be nice.

Summerfrost 51 kids; Massachusetts 6828 posts
31st Dec '12

I think it just sounds like lack of sleep to me. :)

mommymedic 17 kids; Berea, Kentucky 242 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Summerfrost:</b>" I think it just sounds like lack of sleep to me. :) "</blockquote>




It may be, but it still upset me :(