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... Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40235 posts
31st Dec '12

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FutureMommyof2 Due June 5; 1 child; Charlotte, North Carolina 1035 posts
31st Dec '12

That is sad that he isn't protected.

Bettinas 2 kids; Australia 2204 posts
31st Dec '12

I think it's unfair on him because he entered into the agreement thinking that he would have no obligation to a child which they have stated is "biologically theirs" and therefore he shouldn't need to pay. I hope he kept copies of the documents he signed!

Mama Rice 34 kids; North Las Vegas, Nevada 11980 posts
31st Dec '12

That is bullshit. They had an agreement so the man should not pay a dime for the child. If I were him and forced to pay child support against the contract I signed then I would petition to take my parental rights back. I would be pissed if I had to pay for a child I never got to see or interact with.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
31st Dec '12

That's bs. The other woman should be responsible for cs. They were in a relationship, had a child etc. the non custodial parent should pay cs

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
31st Dec '12

i'm confused. the two ladies are helping the guy fight the child support thing?? are they not the ones who filed for it from him?.... i don't get it....

Mama Rice 34 kids; North Las Vegas, Nevada 11980 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" That's bs. The other woman should be responsible for cs. They were in a relationship, had a child etc. the non custodial parent should pay cs"</blockquote>



That is what I was thinking.

Mama Rice 34 kids; North Las Vegas, Nevada 11980 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" i'm confused. the two ladies are helping the guy fight the child support thing?? are they not the ones who filed for it from him?.... i don't get it...."</blockquote>



I think the state went after him for child support since one of the moms went for welfare/state help.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" i'm confused. the two ladies are helping the guy fight the child support thing?? are they not the ones who filed for it from him?.... i don't get it...."</blockquote>




The state automatically files when you apply for assistance. They require that you name the father or they can legally deny you. She could have said she was unsure though

Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40235 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting Mama Rice:" That is bullshit. They had an agreement so the man should not pay a dime for the child. If I were him ... [snip!] ... petition to take my parental rights back. I would be pissed if I had to pay for a child I never got to see or interact with."


I would do the same.



I think it's a load of crap that the state can do this.

Mama Rice 34 kids; North Las Vegas, Nevada 11980 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" i'm confused. the two ladies are helping the ... [snip!] ... for assistance. They require that you name the father or they can legally deny you. She could have said she was unsure though"</blockquote>



So if you went through a sperm bank where it is by number not name (anonymous to even the child I thought) you can't get state assistance?

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
31st Dec '12
Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" i'm confused. the two ladies are helping the ... [snip!] ... for assistance. They require that you name the father or they can legally deny you. She could have said she was unsure though"


ohhh. i see.

TheNuge 1 child; Pennsylvania 22820 posts
31st Dec '12

The situation is ridiculous but WHO enters an agreement like that without lawyers and docs??

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Rice:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MommaNoodle:</b>" ... [snip!] ... through a sperm bank where it is by number not name (anonymous to even the child I thought) you can't get state assistance?"</blockquote>




No clue. I guess you would honestly say, I don't know when they ask.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
31st Dec '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting TheNuge:</b>" The situation is ridiculous but WHO enters an agreement like that without lawyers and docs??"</blockquote>




On Craigslist too. :s