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Mason'sMommy; 1 child; Welland, Ontario 1233 posts
7th Jan '13

He's guilt tripping me....
Making me feel like a p***e o* s**t for leaving.
I keep trying to explain, that I HAVE to do this.

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mason'sMommy;:</b>" He's guilt tripping me.... Making me feel like a p***e o* s**t for leaving. I keep trying to explain, that I HAVE to do this."</blockquote>



Oh f**k that. Now I'm just pissed. That's fuckig rediculus. I dont usually drop the f bomb but this is complete bullshit. Don't let him manipulate you. He's trying to control you.

Mason'sMommy; 1 child; Welland, Ontario 1233 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mason'sMommy;:</b>" He's guilt tripping me.... Making me feel ... [snip!] ... I dont usually drop the f bomb but this is complete bullshit. Don't let him manipulate you. He's trying to control you."

I know that.
He keeps saying " please don't take my son, Mason is my everything. "
I said, if he's your everything why did you do this.
Why haven't you been there for him?




no answer. I'm leaving no matter what he says.

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mason'sMommy;:</b>" I know that. He keeps saying " please don't take my son, Mason is my everything. " I said, if he's your ... [snip!] ... he's your everything why did you do this. Why haven't you been there for him? no answer. I'm leaving no matter what he says."</blockquote>




Oh yeah if he cared about him so much he wouldn't be out screwing around on his mother and leaving you two to b with her. f**k that. Gtfo mama. You can do better.

sillygirltracyb_caius1222 4 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 614 posts
7th Jan '13

yes it is definitely about manipulation for him that's why he wouldn't admit to it previously because he didn't want you to run off with your child

Mama♥Breezy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, California 34988 posts
7th Jan '13

Where are you living right now? And where would you be moving to? I wouldn't give a f**k what he said, he's a manipulative a*****e, but there may be legal consequences for anything you do... You're married right?

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting breezy l0ve ♥:</b>" Where are you living right now? And where would you be moving to? I wouldn't give a f**k what he said, ... [snip!] ... what he said, he's a manipulative a*****e, but there may be legal consequences for anything you do... You're married right?"</blockquote>



:!: I'd contact a lawyer to be safe. If u get caught doing something "wrong" they could deport baby back to Canada and you risk never seeing him again.

Mama♥Breezy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Los Angeles, California 34988 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting breezy l0ve ♥:</b>" Where are you living right now? And ... [snip!] ... to be safe. If u get caught doing something "wrong" they could deport baby back to Canada and you risk never seeing him again."</blockquote>




!! Sadly.... If you're married, I don't think you can legally leave without his permission. Is there any place you can get free legal aid? Better to be safe than sorry.

Efflorescence 1 child; California 661 posts
7th Jan '13

I agree with seeking legal aid but good for you for standing up for yourself and not letting him have a hold over you. Your taking a step in a great direction.

sillygirltracyb_caius1222 4 kids; North Richland Hills, Texas 614 posts
7th Jan '13

They r so stupid. . Do either of them really think this is a relationship that will last? Jump from one bed to the next and think they have a relationship. Its amazing how stupid people are. Id tell him you are going to visit the fam for a while... for a few wks... then call him afterbubare here and see if he minds you staying.. chances are he won't. . He can't be dragging be dragging LO from woman to woman. Thats not stable and not a good example.

Mason'sMommy; 1 child; Welland, Ontario 1233 posts
7th Jan '13

We both told the border I was only going to be staying with our son for a month.
Its been a year.

Mason'sMommy; 1 child; Welland, Ontario 1233 posts
7th Jan '13

My son was also born in America. In New Hampshire, we live in Ontario, illegally.

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mason'sMommy;:</b>" We both told the border I was only going to be staying with our son for a month. Its been a year. "</blockquote>



Did u have your son in the us?

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mason'sMommy;:</b>" My son was also born in America. In New Hampshire, we live in Ontario, illegally."</blockquote>



Oh so technically you're both visiting.

Mason'sMommy; 1 child; Welland, Ontario 1233 posts
7th Jan '13

Yeah, we're on visiting status.
So I can leave.
Mason was born in NH, we're both illegal.