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♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5820 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting MissMim:" I don't think she actually wishes they hadn't done it if it was right for the baby. Anyone who can read ... [snip!] ... can tell that she is just disappointed and impatient, nothing wrong with that. So yes, I thought that comment was rude."


and the stupid doctors gave me tributaline to stop the contractions.
Now I'm pissed.
I just want to meet her already.



I think my reading skills are just fine. And if you think THAT is rude, you have a lot to learn about BG, darling. She could have had her ass handed to her for that comment. But that was just a mom with experience offering advice.
Take it as you will.

MissMim Due January 19 (boy); United Kingdom 27 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" and the stupid doctors gave me tributaline to stop the contractions. Now I'm pissed. I just want to ... [snip!] ... had her ass handed to her for that comment. But that was just a mom with experience offering advice. Take it as you will. "

Lol I'm not really into arguing over the internet, sorry. I was just giving my opinion. Anyway, to the original poster, good luck!

♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5820 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting MissMim:" Lol I'm not really into arguing over the internet, sorry. I was just giving my opinion. Anyway, to the original poster, good luck!"

Not arguing, just giving MY opinion.

Ashlin's Momma 1 child; Lovell, WY, United States 396 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting AmandaMO2:" lol im due feb 19 ........ its taking for ever lol"

Wahh!! I'm due the 18th!!

TracyLynne! 34 kids; Phoenix, Arizona 358 posts
1st Jan '13

No what was rude was that she was calling me selfish for wanting to meet my daughter when she has no clue who the fuck I am.
And yes I was pissed because she would have been born on her own when she was ready (which everyone says wait for the baby to be ready, well I'm prettu sure contractions and dialation means the baby is ready.
Who the fuck are you to call me immature and selfish?
And what advice did she offer? I'm pretty sure all she said was the not be selfish and think about my baby which like I am. Like I said I'm not trying to have her early.
Yes I was pissed that she was coming on her own and they stopped that.
You guys are insane sometimes.
I AM NOT DOING ANYTHING TO INDUCE MYSELF. get off my back.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting TracyLynne!:" No what was rude was that she was calling me selfish for wanting to meet my daughter when she has no ... [snip!] ... on her own and they stopped that. You guys are insane sometimes. I AM NOT DOING ANYTHING TO INDUCE MYSELF. get off my back."


If they stopped it, then they must have felt it was medically necessary to do so. Being anxious and wanting to meet your baby is completely natural. Did the doctor say WHY he was stopping your labor, other than according to your latest due date you are still too early?

TracyLynne! 34 kids; Phoenix, Arizona 358 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" If they stopped it, then they must have felt it was medically necessary to do so. Being anxious and ... [snip!] ... Did the doctor say WHY he was stopping your labor, other than according to your latest due date you are still too early?"


Nope she just said that is was cause they felt I was too early. they did no tests other than checked my cervix.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting TracyLynne!:" Nope she just said that is was cause they felt I was too early. they did no tests other than checked my cervix."


Okay, I know you've said your due date changed a few times. What was your LMP and what did your first dating ultrasound say?

♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5820 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting TracyLynne!:" No what was rude was that she was calling me selfish for wanting to meet my daughter when she has no ... [snip!] ... on her own and they stopped that. You guys are insane sometimes. I AM NOT DOING ANYTHING TO INDUCE MYSELF. get off my back."

Telling you not to rush it seems like pretty good advice to me, when you're still weeks away from your due date. What's immature and selfish to me, is that they stopped it for a REASON, and you're pissed. They don't just do that because they feel like leaving you in pain for awhile longer. I NEVER said you were inducing yourself, so slow your roll about that. Actually, I think you're the only one on this entire thread who has even mentioned inducing yourself. (Forgive me if I'm wrong, I can't see the entire thread from writing this post)

TracyLynne! 34 kids; Phoenix, Arizona 358 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" Telling you not to rush it seems like pretty good advice to me, when you're still weeks away from your ... [snip!] ... who has even mentioned inducing yourself. (Forgive me if I'm wrong, I can't see the entire thread from writing this post) "


o having perfectly normal feelings/emotions makes me immature and selfish?
I'm pretty sure it makes me human dear.
And when she says not to rush it, how the hell am I rushing it?
They stopped it because they claim I'm too early.

TracyLynne! 34 kids; Phoenix, Arizona 358 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" Okay, I know you've said your due date changed a few times. What was your LMP and what did your first dating ultrasound say? "



LMP= April 11th
Ultrasound at 8 weeks showed her at 6 weeks
Next one she was right one
and all the ones after that she is two weeks bigger.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting TracyLynne!:" LMP= April 11th Ultrasound at 8 weeks showed her at 6 weeks Next one she was right one and all the ones after that she is two weeks bigger."


When was that "next one' that showed her right on? Honestly, though, I think the ultrasound at 8 weeks gave the most accurate due date, but your LMP give a date of the 16th. If your second ultrasound was during your second trimester, it could have been off, and they can still be off even now.

♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5820 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting TracyLynne!:" o having perfectly normal feelings/emotions makes me immature and selfish? I'm pretty sure it makes ... [snip!] ... human dear. And when she says not to rush it, how the hell am I rushing it? They stopped it because they claim I'm too early."


You're rushing it, if you had your way, your baby would be here by now, even though the doctors said they felt it was too early.

TracyLynne! 34 kids; Phoenix, Arizona 358 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" You're rushing it, if you had your way, your baby would be here by now, even though the doctors said they felt it was too early. "


Forgive me if I sound dumb but I still don't see how I'm rushing it?
I'm not doing anything to cause her to come now, she was coming onher own and they stopped it.
Yes I wa spissed and sad that they did, so if that's me rushing it (having those feelings) then I guess I was but I don't feel like I am at all.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
1st Jan '13
Quoting TracyLynne!:" Forgive me if I sound dumb but I still don't see how I'm rushing it? I'm not doing anything to cause ... [snip!] ... and sad that they did, so if that's me rushing it (having those feelings) then I guess I was but I don't feel like I am at all."


So, because my son decided to try and come on his own at 27 weeks, they shouldn't have stopped it? Or my youngest daughter at 32 weeks? Just because your body goes into labor, does NOT mean that the timing is right for the BABY'S HEALTH.