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i am acting ridiculous. INDIAN 1 child; California 2358 posts
3rd Jan '13

Dont quote!!!!! S

♥Mama Constantine 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Texas 5836 posts
3rd Jan '13

It wasn't a picture in her in a bikini, and he didn't say anything that could remotely be taken as inappropriate, so what's the big deal?

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
3rd Jan '13

Awwe :( its hard when one partner is jealous it makes you wonder why they're jealous and then makes you insecure as well. I'd talk to him about it.

-BLT- Due May 20; 1 child; St Louis, Missouri 2572 posts
3rd Jan '13

We have a rule that neither of us can be friends with exs on facebook. Are you friends with her too? Sounds like he was just interested in the bike...

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
3rd Jan '13

Does it bother you that they are FB friends? Because if it doesn't, then you getting mad at him commenting on a scooter picture is kind of ridiculous. You need to address this with him, or with yourself, or both. But it does need to be addressed and resolved. Or else you're going to be pretty miserable if you let something so petty upset you this much.

MamaTiffy Due August 2 (girl); 3 kids; Sunnyvale, CA, United States 8743 posts
3rd Jan '13

I don't think commenting on the picture should be the problem, it wouldn't bother me BUT if I was the jealous type I'd be more concerned as to why he's friends with her on there in the first place. I'd only be worried if they were talking a lot, or the comments were flirty.



But then again, I'm still "friends" on fb with 4 of my exes, we didn't have nasty break ups and I remained on good terms with them and talk to them so why delete them?

INDIAN 1 child; California 2358 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting -BLT-:</b>" We have a rule that neither of us can be friends with exs on facebook. Are you friends with her too? Sounds like he was just interested in the bike..."</blockquote>




Nope never even seen her face until then, and he was anything but interested in the bike.. he was making a joke as conversation.

☠ℛawr☠ 2 kids; Arizona 2568 posts
3rd Jan '13

I get the same way. A couple months ago I found out that my husband wrote my ex best friend and commented on how good her hair looked. He is always commenting on his ex's pictures saying how good the look. He gets jealous if I have an ex on facebook. I was never overly jealous, but now I'm turning into a crazy jealous b***h.

Andi+Andy=Marley+1 2 kids; Fredericksburg, Virginia 4564 posts
3rd Jan '13

To me...I don't think that's something to be jealous of, but I'm not the jealous type. I just don't see it being a big deal but if you do maybe you should talk to him about it

INDIAN 1 child; California 2358 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☠ℛawr☠:</b>" I get the same way. A couple months ago I found out that my husband wrote my ex best friend and commented ... [snip!] ... look. He gets jealous if I have an ex on facebook. I was never overly jealous, but now I'm turning into a crazy jealous b***h."</blockquote>




That's how I feel, I've gone from my relaxed chilled out personality to this uptight jealous over everything.... and I want it to stop. I know he's a really good person and he'd never hurt me, I just can't help but get jealous anymore.

BareFootBabyMaker Due May 30 (boy); 2 kids; Springfield, Missouri 850 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting rachel marie♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting -BLT-:</b>" We have a rule that neither of us can be friends ... [snip!] ... never even seen her face until then, and he was anything but interested in the bike.. he was making a joke as conversation."


Why do you assume that? He could truly just think it was a nice bike. I love my husband and have no feelings for my exes but if they posted a pic of them with a nice new car I would probably comment on it..."Hey, nice car. What is it?" With no other motives in mind.

INDIAN 1 child; California 2358 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BareFootBabyMaker:</b>" Why do you assume that? He could truly just think it was a nice bike. I love my husband and have no ... [snip!] ... a pic of them with a nice new car I would probably comment on it..."Hey, nice car. What is it?" With no other motives in mind."</blockquote>

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting rachel marie♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BareFootBabyMaker:</b>" Why do you assume that? He could truly ... [snip!] ... when he hasn't talked to her in so long and the last time he did was to tell her he missed her and thought of her often."


Ah, there it is. It had to be something else other than just a simple comment on a scooter pic on FB.



Like I said, you should really talk to him about it, or work on the issue yourself, I can't imagine how it feels to have that nagging thought in your head.

INDIAN 1 child; California 2358 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting iLL-Legal Alien:</b>" Ah, there it is. It had to be something else other than just a simple comment on a scooter pic on FB. ... [snip!] ... talk to him about it, or work on the issue yourself, I can't imagine how it feels to have that nagging thought in your head."</blockquote>

BareFootBabyMaker Due May 30 (boy); 2 kids; Springfield, Missouri 850 posts
3rd Jan '13

he's with you now...focus on that. You're just hurting yourself and your relationship by living in the past! I'm sorry you're going through this :(