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I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49352 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Oh gosh that's heartbreaking. :("


Yeah to make it past the one thing stopping you before and have that happen. I can't even imagine.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49352 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Thank you. Me too!"


If you do, and then have the csections. My best advice is WALK AS SOON AS POSSIBLE! I didn't for almost 24 hours. Made it hurt so much worse.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16595 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Yeah to make it past the one thing stopping you before and have that happen. I can't even imagine."


Not the same as losing a living child of course, but somewhat similar to how I feel bout this last loss. I finally beat the early loss thing, and finally became confident enough to truly believe I would have that baby, only to have something completely unrelated cause me to lose that one too.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16595 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" If you do, and then have the csections. My best advice is WALK AS SOON AS POSSIBLE! I didn't for almost 24 hours. Made it hurt so much worse."


Wow. Good to know, thank you.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49352 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Not the same as losing a living child of course, but somewhat similar to how I feel bout this last loss. ... [snip!] ... enough to truly believe I would have that baby, only to have something completely unrelated cause me to lose that one too. "


Yeah I think she was about as far along as you were. I thought about you when my mom told me :(

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49352 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Wow. Good to know, thank you."


You're welcome. I waited so long no joke it took 2 nurses and my husband to get me to the bathroom. So many I hear saying they do great when they get up within an hour. I mean I was fine getting up the stairs by the time I got home, but sure I would have felt better if I had walked more.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mylittleone's (B.B.M):</b>" Most high risk doctors are in my experience but every now and then you find a keeper. The problem ... [snip!] ... your condition most have basic knowledge of every condition but primarily work with certain groups of high risk mothers."</blockquote>




I was scared shitless of my peri cause very one saidhe was an ass. I LOVE him. I can't imagine having anyone else. He is an ass to some I think because by cant handle bluntness. He doesn't him haw around. He tells it like it is. Some people can't handle the truth and wanna be babied with their Info. I don't want to be coddled. I want answers, options, and reality.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16595 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mylittleone's (B.B.M):</b>" Most high risk doctors are in ... [snip!] ... can't handle the truth and wanna be babied with their Info. I don't want to be coddled. I want answers, options, and reality."


That's how a peri really needs to be.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16595 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Yeah I think she was about as far along as you were. I thought about you when my mom told me :("


Oh I thought she'd had the child. Yeah I can definitely relate to that.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49352 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mylittleone's (B.B.M):</b>" Most high risk doctors are in ... [snip!] ... can't handle the truth and wanna be babied with their Info. I don't want to be coddled. I want answers, options, and reality."


That's how my OB is. When we were discussing my induction, I had mentioned a certain date my mother wanted and he goes "Well, ya know, you don't HAVE to tell her to be there..." Because she was there once and annoying the shit out of all of us and yelling at him that Rory "WILL be a girl" lmao

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>" I know of one MFM in town, but I don't know of any docs that specialize in 'high risk' cases. I know my OB isn't one of them. I'll talk to my mom about it. She works in NICU and knows several OBs."</blockquote>



Call the Mfm and ask them if they recommend anyone who is good with high risk cases

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49352 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting Amelia Margaret:" Oh I thought she'd had the child. Yeah I can definitely relate to that."


No she was near 13-15 weeks I can't remember my mom just said she was "close" to me.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" You're welcome. I waited so long no joke it took 2 nurses and my husband to get me to the bathroom. ... [snip!] ... hour. I mean I was fine getting up the stairs by the time I got home, but sure I would have felt better if I had walked more."</blockquote>



How did they get up after an hour?!?! :shock: did they get put under?!

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 16595 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>" I know of one MFM in town, but I don't ... [snip!] ... and knows several OBs."</blockquote> Call the Mfm and ask them if they recommend anyone who is good with high risk cases"


That's a very good idea too.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" That's how my OB is. When we were discussing my induction, I had mentioned a certain date my mother ... [snip!] ... there..." Because she was there once and annoying the shit out of all of us and yelling at him that Rory "WILL be a girl" lmao"</blockquote>




:D I'm about to not tell my mom. She seems to think she's inns go see my baby in the nicu after she's born. I told her I hate I burst your bubble but NOBODY except SO is going up there before I see my baby.