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HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22789 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lumpy space princess:</b>" I'm not sure if i want to bury the baby, but i was maybe thinking getting her a little box than put ... [snip!] ... box than put her inside a bigger special box with a cross and such and putting her in a safe place, to always have her with me."</blockquote>




I would feel like I would want to bury the baby with a tree or something.

Mamiii 3 kids; Dallas, Georgia 824 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lumpy space princess:</b>" I'm not sure if i want to bury the ... [snip!] ... to always have her with me."</blockquote> I would feel like I would want to bury the baby with a tree or something."


Yeah that'd be beautiful <3 idk i live with my parents and if i move one day or if they move one day since they rent i don't want to just leave my baby hhere :/

☠BryBry'sMuM☠ Due March 19 (girl); 1 child; Fullerton, California 15229 posts
3rd Jan '13

oh hunny im truly sorry for your loss! SO's sister had two i dont think she did that but i know she was very torn up for a while and didnt talk to her mom for 1-2 days bc she was so hurt (she talks to her mom everyday like 2-3times a day)
i wish i could take the pain away! but if you need to talk, vent anything im here for you! my hearts hurts for you!

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting Lumpy space princess:" Well ass soon as i found out i was miscarrying i knew right away i was going to watch every time i passed ... [snip!] ... time i passed blood so that i could catch the baby, I'm a freak when it comes to that and i just wanted the baby close to me."


There's nothing wrong with that. I was in denial. I refused to believe it was happening, even with all the evidence there. I always figured if I ever miscarried again, I would do something like what you are doing, and put the baby in a little box that you get jewelry in, and bury them. It might seem weird, but the boxes are pretty, and its better than what I have done.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22789 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lumpy space princess:</b>" Yeah that'd be beautiful <3 idk i live with my parents and if i move one day or if they move one day since they rent i don't want to just leave my baby hhere :/"</blockquote>




I don't know how practical it is but you could maybe get a plant and bury the baby in the planter.

☠BryBry'sMuM☠ Due March 19 (girl); 1 child; Fullerton, California 15229 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lumpy space princess:</b>" Yeah that'd be beautiful <3 idk ... [snip!] ... :/"</blockquote> I don't know how practical it is but you could maybe get a plant and bury the baby in the planter."

omg that is the most amzine idea! its so sweet and thoughtful that plant will mean everything!

Monica♥YASDYARDFR 17 kids; Beverly Hills, California 57063 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting RonniG:" Obviously, you should do what you feel like is right for you but I don't think that would help you move on."


I don't feel like you know her to know enough of if this will help her to move on or not.

Monica♥YASDYARDFR 17 kids; Beverly Hills, California 57063 posts
3rd Jan '13

I would look into getting an urn. I would be wary of burying the baby in the planter because what do you do if the plant dies?

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22789 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☠BryBry's MuM☠:</b>" omg that is the most amzine idea! its so sweet and thoughtful that plant will mean everything!"</blockquote>




:)

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22789 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Regina George:</b>" I would look into getting an urn. I would be wary of burying the baby in the planter because what do you do if the plant dies?"</blockquote>




This is true. Like I said I don't know how practical it is.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22789 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting RonniG:</b>" Obviously, you should do what you feel like is right for you but I don't think that would help you move on."</blockquote>




Everyone grieves differently. What may help you, may not help someone else. What helps someone else may not help you.

☠BryBry'sMuM☠ Due March 19 (girl); 1 child; Fullerton, California 15229 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting Regina George:" I would look into getting an urn. I would be wary of burying the baby in the planter because what do you do if the plant dies?"


If the plant dies she can reuse the soil... its an idea



☠BryBry'sMuM☠ Due March 19 (girl); 1 child; Fullerton, California 15229 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting RonniG:</b>" Obviously, you should do what you feel like is ... [snip!] ... Everyone grieves differently. What may help you, may not help someone else. What helps someone else may not help you."


i agree and any suggestions would be great for her! i cant imagine how she feels i get all teared up

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22789 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☠BryBry's MuM☠:</b>" i agree and any suggestions would be great for her! i cant imagine how she feels i get all teared up"</blockquote>




Yep.

Mamiii 3 kids; Dallas, Georgia 824 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting ☠BryBry's MuM☠:" i agree and any suggestions would be great for her! i cant imagine how she feels i get all teared up"


I am taking it well, but it sucks because i was just getting to the point to where i was excepting the pregnancy, But I trust God and I know he did this for good reasons and the baby is in a safe place, i just dread getting pregnant in the future :(