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3rd Jan '13

Hi I'm 23 and I just found out that my gf is cheating on me or is planing on it. I've been with here for awhile now and things were going great till about a month and a half ago. I love her and i don't want to lose her any thoughts on what i should do

username1 1 child; Chicopee, MA, United States 30921 posts
3rd Jan '13

well how do you know this? i mean if you love her and dont want to lose her then confront her and move on and leave it up to her about what happens next

*TiffanyMae* 2 kids; Montana 6002 posts
3rd Jan '13

Talk to her about it and see what she says about it.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
3rd Jan '13

Leave her. No one deserves to be cheated on.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
3rd Jan '13

How do you know? just ask her about it and then both of you can diced together if you want to save the relationship or go your separate ways.

The Dandelion Rapist 18 kids; New Mexico 6885 posts
3rd Jan '13
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username1 1 child; Chicopee, MA, United States 30921 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting :" I saw her facebook thats how i found out"


why would you want a girl that cheated on you or is planning on doing it?

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 73501 posts
status 3rd Jan '13
Quoting bbbt:" Leave her. No one deserves to be cheated on. "


:!::!::!::!:

username1 1 child; Chicopee, MA, United States 30921 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting :" She the type who will turn the actual problem into the fact i saw her facebook"


then thats when you leave her

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting :" She the type who will turn the actual problem into the fact i saw her facebook"


She sounds manipulative.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22462 posts
status 3rd Jan '13

Leave her. You don't deserve that.

The Dandelion Rapist 18 kids; New Mexico 6885 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting bbbt:" She sounds manipulative. "


:!: :!: :!:



If she is going to turn it around to make you look like the bad guy when she has dishonest intentions, then why stay ? :?

*TiffanyMae* 2 kids; Montana 6002 posts
3rd Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting :</b>" She the type who will turn the actual problem into the fact i saw her facebook"</blockquote>



Did you see her messages? Confront her, and if she tries to turn the situation around on you then you should just leave her. A respectable woman would own up to her own mistakes

Kitten Power TTC since Aug 2011; 48 kids; Japan 1053 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting :" We have known eachothere since we were teens and we have been through alot"


try and work shit out, i personally would leave, i hate cheats

username1 1 child; Chicopee, MA, United States 30921 posts
3rd Jan '13
Quoting :" We have known eachothere since we were teens and we have been through alot"


doesnt mean you deserve to be shit on